No, that is just the way it is! I have big lips, and I am not what you would call very sexual

I can't help it...am laughing...ha. Sorry. Oh my, what a question, what an answer. Think about it, the lips of her pussy are on the outside, the "tightness" is the size of her lil' hole. The only time, that I have ever felt a difference worth noting, from female to female, is when they have had given birth. Which I believe, the whole insides are pushed apart (bones and everthing) then all that is to rely on for "tightness" is the muscle of the vagina. As far as lips, I find it interesting that girls with puffy mouth lips, tend to have puffy pussy lips. And visa-versa. (thin and thin) It seems to be something cool to study, hee, if given the time and opportunities. But, every lil' hole, no matter the lip shape, has been quite lil', until the pelvic bones are spread apart by birthing. Of which then, ones mind is not concerned at all, cuz ya'll have a baby that ya'll just love too much to think about how "it" feels anymore. I once met an older woman that could clamp down hard on my pinky finger, and hard!, she never did have kids....then again younger chicks with kids, could hardly hold a beer bottle....so, it all matters with the bones being pushed out I think...but a study needs to be done, go study, and have fun...