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I have been with girlfriend for around five months and we love each other very much!Thing is I have been feeling anxious recently about the relationship, and i cant really figure out whether its me or the relationship. Everything is alright when we are together, but when im not with her I feel like im waiting for her to phone me.
I start to worry about her with her previous boyfriend, and that all the stuff she is saying/feeling/doing with me is what she has done with someone else before, which makes it feel less special!
I am also very dependant on my girlfriend at the moment cos not a lot of my friends are around at the moment, which puts more pressure on the relationship to work!
I just want to stop worrying and enjoy the relationship, how do i do it?
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This is a reply to # 331,018"Ain't Love Grand" as the old saying goes.......
If I didn't know any better, I would be tempted to say that you just might a little on the controlling side. But you sounded too sweet......
I think maybe you need to develop other interests (or friends) so when you are not around her, you won't have those anxious feelings.
You know, love takes time to develop. Trust takes time to develop.
Maybe you just need time. The most important thing to remember when trying to work out all of your anxiety is don't let her know what you are feeling because if you do what you will really be telling her is that you do NOT trust her. She doesn't need to hear that.
Good luck and let me know how the relationship is going!
Paulette Gunn
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MoreThis is a reply to # 331,021Thanks for the advice, im sure you are right!Im just being a bit stupid at the moment, just that its my first real relationship and she means a lot to me, scared something is gonna go wrong! Not a lot of my mates around at the minute, so its hard work to do stuff without her
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This is a reply to # 331,018Is there a reason why you feel like this? Does she talk about her ex alot?- Re: why do i feel down in my new rel... mind boggles
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This is a reply to # 331,047You've heard it said that we can become heartbroken when we are in love and things go wrong. Have you ever tried to change 'hearbroken' to 'heart broken wide open?' Open your heart to this lady and if she breaks your heart, well you will know that you have one and that means alot. - Re: why do i feel down in my new rel... mind boggles
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This is a reply to # 331,047You've heard it said that we can become heartbroken when we are in love and things go wrong. Have you ever tried to change 'hearbroken' to 'heart broken wide open?' Open your heart to this lady and if she breaks your heart, well you will know that you have one and that means alot. - Re: why do i feel down in my new rel... #162944
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This is a reply to # 331,047No, she doesnt talk bout him that much, just that I occasionally have to see him in clubs etc. Which reminds me that she has been in a relationship before and been really close with someone before, which makes me feel that what we have is less special!But exs are something that everyone has to deal with, so I dont see this as major problem.
What is more important, is that we dont seem to stop arguing.We have been arguing since we started goin out, and its causing me a lot of stress and making me loose faith in the relationship. At first i thought it was a mutual thing, until one of my friends came out with us one night and pointed out that my girlfriend was giving me a hard time,(i had unintentionally made a comment about strip clubs, she is very insecure about other girls, so preceeded to spend the rest of the night in a mood with me, refusing to sit next to me, kiss me etc).
These sort of events have happened before, where i unintentionally hurt her in relation to other girls, and she spends the rest of the night punishing me for a 'mistake', not letting me near her etc. It has got to the point where i dont think its particularly fair whats shes doing, and i dont know whether i can keep on dealing with it!It would be devastating right now if the relationship ended, but these sort of events are making me loose faith in the relationship!
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