I have had EC for 12 years. I am 28 male. My EC developed shortly after Accutane. But appart from Accutane I have suffered from bullying, self hate and extreme psychological stress.
I have never had a girlfriend and I am afraid women will rejet me for my lips, I also have these little white spots on my lips. I know this fear might be exxagerated and maybe women don't care...
Anyways, during the past couple of months I tried out cuddle parties and I had the impression that my lips didnt crack for a couple hours after the cuddling.
Are there any people here who consider themselves happy and relaxed and are in a loving relationship with a lot of loving touch and still have EC?
My last hope is that my lips could heal if I experience love, touch and acceptance long enough
Feeling loved, feeling needed, feeling awesome, feeling good, feeling relaxed, feeling happy, feeling like you are shining, like you are filled with light and love ....
That is how people feel when they are in love !!!
Those feeling are a big part of our health, and our immunity and our ability to be healthy and to be resistant to any illness, including but not limiting to allergies , food intolerances , infections , stress etc .
The more minutes of your life you have those feelings and those thoughts inside of your head and your soul and your body, the more healthy you will be!
The best for you is if you can, consciously, keep those feelings inside of you most of the time.
People who are in a loving relationship are generally more healthy, more happy and generally live longer !
You can actually remain in that state for a very long time if you learn how to meditate or how to practice EFT !
Feeling Loved and Lovable - Tapping with Brad Yates
Allowing Love - Tapping with Brad Yates
Love Magnet - Valentine's EFT with Brad Yates - Tapping into Love Beyond Belief
Hello, thanks for your reply. I appreciate it. I used to meditate a lot and experienced health benefits in other areas, not so much my lips. I am sure nothing replaces regular abundant true loving touch.
i find it interesting though that nobody replied that he/she is in a state of complete nurture and abundant loving touch. I still believe peeling lips could be a sign of a love and touch starved human being.