Well apparently my dad has disowned me

I have been looking after him since mom died. I have paid his bills answered the phone at all hours of the night when he was upset about mom. Found resources to help pay his utiliies

I called him out on using pills again..He proceeded to tell me how ungrateful I am when he paid for Jack syringes and got my things from my ex..Hello. I just spent 150 on his tags for his care. He said I am such a hoarder of money, that I couldn't give him ten dollars.

I make half what he does. Now hes giving my cat away. I was finding a place so I can have him.

This breaks my heart..That cat is my world. So I called my vet to get adoption going. I called him to tell him Id pay him until the cat could get to the vet. He then proceeded to tell me I was terrible and a bad pet parent and I was going to kill my cat.

He expects me to be a spouse to him. I don't mind helping him but his 62 years old.

So now when he knows I am the only one capable to be patient advocate for him, he has disowned me. I called him to tell him supplies for my cat are on the way, so hopefully he wont give Jack away and he refused to answer.

I dont know if he's a Narc but I see some traits. I don't see how someone can throw their child away..How can he not have feelings? He'd rather shoot himself in the foot and have no one there than to just be adult about it.

But I look back on it..He has always thrown things in my face when he does a favor for me. He has hugged me maybe a handful of times in my life. He tells me he loves me everyday but now, I just wonder if hes going through the motions.

He's good at making everything make it sound like your fault. This was all over ten dollars!

He did this and I didnt even get to tell him about my job interviews or anything..because it was about him

I sent the things..Its just money..I assume Ill probably hear from him because he got what he wanted..not that I want to talk to him