Frugivorous, I understand and appreciate that you have a certain set of beliefs about making vegan choices.  But, I want to caution you that choosing a vegan lifestyle does not - does not - alter patterns of abuse, in virtually all dynamics.  Abuse is typically a learned behavior, although nutrition can sometimes play a factor in the severity of the abuses that are inflicted.

Posting that cutting this and that out of one's nutritional regimen (or, that of an abusive partner's) and the result will somehow interrupt the cycle of abuse is erroneous and could be very dangerous for a victim whose life is being threatened.  I can tell you from personal experience that cutting out a sirloin steak or can of tuna does not prevent an abuser from pointing a loaded weapon in the face of their spouse, beating them in front of their children, or sexually assaulting their partner.  Abuse is learned behavior and not based upon nutritional choices.

So, if you are pro-vegan, that's wonderful, but please do some more extensive  and in-depth research on Domestic Violence and Abuse before posting more erroneous claims that choosing a vegan lifestyle is somehow going to change ingrained behavioral dynamics.  It's misleading and could possibly set up false hope that an abuser will stop their choices.

Brightest blessings