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I was raped at 12/13 and abused by boyfriends since 13/14. Im not 17 and scared.... my parents dont know and im afraid to tell them. ive been through so much and im now in out-patient rehab... im always depressed and trust no one... i just want help. im alone and scared...- Re: Help... Please seek2clean
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MoreThis is a reply to # 1,732,205Your are frightened I'm sure, but alone you are not!!!
You have the company of many, too many who have had your experiences at such a tender age. What do you think may happen if you tell your parents? If you let them be there for you they may be able to help you prevent this cycle from continuing for the rest of your life. Counseling is good right now - before any further abuse occurs - hopefully you are in contact with a support system. I understand your Depression and trust issues, but please don't waste your life in self-pity and remorse. Above all, you must know that you are not now, and never have been responsible for the actions and choices of others! By the time I was your age I had been brutalized more than once and the long string of abusive relationships had only begun. Now is the time for you to choose to become better from what has happened - not bitter - or you can find yourself in another bad situation. It is up to you.
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This is a reply to # 1,732,205You got some great advice from Seek2Clean.
Why do you fear telling your parents? Do you fear telling them because you were somewhere you weren't supposed to be when the assaults took place? If that's the case, are you afraid they will tell you it's all your fault?
How have your parents behaved in the past when you told them about a problem you were having? Did they listen to you and work with you to solve it? If so---trust that they will react the same way now.
You said that you're in outpatient rehab. I'm sure your parents wonder what caused you to do drugs. When you tell them about the assaults and how it all made you feel, they will understand why you did drugs.
I agree with Seek2Clean---you do need some counseling. When you tell your parents what happened to you, tell them that you want to start counseling.
You can also call 1-800-656-HOPE which is the hotline for RAINN (Rape Abuse & Incest National Network). The person on the other end can give you advice and steer you to the proper help.
You must deal with what happened so that you can heal emotionally. Best of luck with everything.
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This is a reply to # 1,732,205Seek2 and Blue Rose have offered some sound suggestions and asked some hard questions. It is very important for you to understand that you are not alone - I was a victim of sexua| assault during my adolescence and it tainted my understanding of myself for many, many years. I never told my parents, even to their dying days. But, I did tell counselors and therapists during various points in my life when I couldn't manage triggers, etc.
I would strongly recommend that you speak to a trusted adult - perhaps, a school counselor. Tell them what happened and they can point you in the right direction so that you don't spend the rest of your life like I did: fearful and feeling worthless. You are valuable. You don't have to be afraid. And, you can put it all into perspective so that you can be a stronger, wiser, and vigilant human being that can advocate for others like yourself.
Most sincere best wishes to you, my dear.
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This is a reply to # 1,732,633thank you all for the advice. my parents do wonder why i started to use drugs to cope but i only told them bc of the pressures of school and them wanting me to be this perfectic thing for them. i hate disappointing them... and i feel like this is a major one...- Truthful speaking #68716
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This is a reply to # 1,732,677I completely understand your hesitancy to speak with your folks - I had a fear that my folks would no longer love me, think highly of me, and a host of other things that I used to avoid truthful speaking. What I want to say is that most all parents will be understanding and supportive of their children's issues, even if it takes them a while to get over the shock. As a parent, it's never a simple task to imagine my children going through misery, but they do. Speaking truthfully to your folks doesn't necessarily mean that you'll have to provide details. Preparing them with honest and carefully chosen words will help them to help you, if you ever seek to speak to them.
"Mom, Dad, I want to talk to you about something, but I want your promise that you will not interrupt me or stand in judgement.. If you can't agree to that, I'll speak to you about it at a later date." Nothing wrong with that.
Again, my very best wishes for you.
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This is a reply to # 1,732,709thank you for everything. ill take into consideration what you said, and again i thank you
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