actualhealth
Hi #131312,
I'm a mad socialite and often party everyone under the table, but i never drink. when people first meet me and offer to get me one, they invariably dismiss my happy 'no thanks' with a look of 'you-have-got-to-be-kidding!' at that point i always burst out laughing cos sure enough after their initial lighthearted flash of disbelief their face drops and the nagging begins and thats when i laugh even harder. when finally they give up ask why i simply tell them i can't stand the stuff. its too bitter and i never eat or drink
Sugar either (for health reasons) but mainly i just love food and there is 'no way' on earth i'm gonna sacrifice my precious calories on a flavor i don't like. gimme a thick creamy greek yogurt any day. so if yours is a tasty relaxing drink then enjoy! :-) what nobody has MADE you drink.
honesty and laughter is what sets us free.
same with addiction (any addiction). it doesn't start becoming manageable until you start being honest with yourself ...and happy to be. ..and thats just the start of it....
ultimate freedom is being *out from control*
not just 'in control' of whichever desire once controlled you.