The Oleander Support forum is not a private forum and has no owner. I did not request the creation of that forum, nor am I the moderator, and nor do I even know who is.
I guess when worms move on they can't help but leave a slimy trail.
Trust me Cora - it was deliberate. There is probably much you do not know, but I am not going to get into that, knowing and respecting your feelings. I will say that I think quite highly of you, think you have a wonderful heart and I have been very concerned about your health. I believe that there are some things you could do to nourish yourself back to the better health you desire and deserve - and I have consulted with two very knowledgeable persons about what would likely be the best way to do that. If you care to hear, and I hope you do, send me a PM and I will respond when I get the chance. As it is, I am about to depart for the woods, pasture and pond and engage in some less than healthy activities (unless Bud Lights are considered a health drink).
Have yourself a good weekend,
Tony