I am trying the soya lecithin again for my lipid deposits. I thought it was affecting my temps before, but not sure if it was the lecithin now. I won't use the milk again though as it is not necessary.

Did you say 3 tablespoons a day. On the tin it say one teaspoon three times daily. Would that be enough?

Yes, one tablespoon 3 times daily.

I have the orange eyelid problem, name escapes me, and lumps under skin on arms.

You are probably talking about xanthelasmas around the eyes. Lumps under the skin and arms are most likely lipomas.

How long do you think it will take to dissolve these? I'm assuming it will help a fatty liver if i have one too.

I have no idea. Each individual is different. Different chemistry, different immune systems, different diets........ They all play a role in how people respond.

It is high in phosphorus? isn't that the one, that too much is not good for bones?

Yes, lecithin contains a lot of phosophorus, which is why it is recommended no more than 3 tablespoons daily. If you are getting a lot of phosphorus from additional sources (red meats, colas, dairy) then you can increase your intake of green leafy vegetables or seaweeds for the calcium to counter the excess phosphorus.