HarmonicCharge
It is a good term if it is a steamy relationship.
If I would rather play under the sheets with a man instead of going on an outing with him, he is definitely a lover!
It is possible to connect with a lover with the mind, body and soul.
I think any man would like to be called a lover!
It seems so much less stressful than putting the boyfriend label on him.
I like the term "faithful lover." Meaning monogamy with much heat and steam, passionate!!!!!!!!!