I think you should do what you choose. This woman has a huge problem, she is very sick, and it should not have any influence on your choice. I am sure she has timed this attack after your bereavement, deliberately, when you are at your most vulnerable. You must now find the strength to rise up from it.

Ignore the votes. You know people here have multiple identities.

Look at this link:-
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder

A pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for admiration, and lack of empathy, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:[1]

1. has a grandiose sense of self-importance
2. is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
3. believes that he or she is "special" and can only be understood by, or should associate with, people (or institutions) who are also "special" or of high status.
4. requires excessive admiration
5. has a sense of entitlement
6. is interpersonally exploitative
7. lacks empathy
8. is often envious of others or believes others are envious of him or her
9. shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes

If that is not enough, here is more:-
http://www.narc-attack.blogspot.com/


A Malignant Narcissist's Shock Tactics

One of the most glaring outward signs of malignant narcissism is the way narcissists malign others. They are constantly improving their own image at someone else's expense.

Another very red flag is perverted reactions to things. This red flag can't be missed, because it's downright shocking. But you witness it infrequently, and it's so perplexing that people unfailingly disbelieve their very eyes and blow off this warning sign.

Therefore, whenever you DO witness a perverted reaction to something, DO NOT blow it off. It is always a very bad sign.

For example, the narcissist inexplicably gets angry at what should please. You expected a smile and - WHAM - you got a look that could kill instead. It sets you reeling, doesn't it?

Guess what? That's exactly why the narcissist does that = to set you reeling so you are easy to run over.

Other examples are being repulsed by what should endear. Laughing at what is tragic.

You know - those bizarre reactions that make you want to pinch yourself. Those reactions that you cannot quite believe even though you have seen them with your own eyes.

Remember that normal people don't do that.

My experience convinces me that narcissists use these backwards reactions to things as shock tactics. They strike you as the sight of apple falling UP from a tree would. It takes you aback. It disarms you.

That way the narcissist gets away with it, because you are stunned. It's kinda like a "sucker punch".

While your jaw is hanging and you are wondering where that reaction came from - whether you or the narcissist is the crazy one - the narcissist performs this hit-and-run to get away with the abuse.

It's a way to disable you (by morally stunning you) so that you cannot defend yourself from the attack. The term for disabling and then attacking someone is "mayhem." Needless to say, it's the lowest of the low who fight that way.

Know anybody who does that you? Who somehow takes offense and gets mad just when you are saying or doing something that should make them happy? If you do know anyone like this, stay away from them. It's a stunt. A perverted stunt to catch you off guard and run you over.

And normal people, people of goodwill, don't do that.




There is much more in that final link. She should be banned from this forum, banned from curezone. No one should respond to her posts. That will only feed her narcissism.

I didn't see the post that makes you consider this but I truly hope you stay on. You're a wealth of information and you do not attack those whose opinions differ - you are always respectful. I vote you stay.

Ah Chris, I had computer trouble today and have a lot of catching up to do. While you may already be abed as I write this and won't see it until later I want to urge you not to quit as moderator.

You are one of the best local moderators on Curezone and this forum needs you. You have personal experience, have done a lot of research to gain knowledge, and are an excellent writer. Please stay.

I know its frustrating having to deal with belligerent people who will not give up. Some people get their jollies by trying to ruin the day of another. Please do not give this individual the pleasure of thinking she ran you off.