Aint nothin' wrong with a hairy lady. Hell, my mom had a full beard.

Best answer is simply to shave, like millions of other women. I'd suggest, to save yourself a lot of trouble and distress, that you get a good-quality men's type rechargeable electric razor and use that. The rotary-head models from the Philips Norelco men's range are particular favorites with women who have tried them.

try using bellabe at http://www.facialhairthreading.com
or you can google bellabe it's a hair remover tool that is very easy to use and removes the unwanted facial hair from the roots.

have you tried myspringit.com
They have a new solution - "spring bars". Its like threading. but you can do it yourself with out damaging your skin ..i.e; you dont need to shave, wax or bleach your hair anymore.
Read this article for more info
http://www.ehow.com/how_5078214_remove-facial-hair-easily-women.html