Hi Antique,

I do not know either for sure. I do
not generally go to psychics myself
since I prefer to not know. Early in
my life I went to some amazing ones.
One told me I would marry a dark
haired man at a place with a white
picket fence. I scoffed at it since
my boyfriend then was blonde and I
was in love. Well, a dark haired man
walked into my life in a welding shop
and it was love at first sight. I knew.
We decided to marry a few years later
at the old family homestead. A week
before the marriage, unbeknown to me,
my to-be husband's folks had a brand
new white picket fence put up around
the whole place. I have been told too
that what you are told is one of the
potentials in your life. Freewill has
its place in the equation and so I
suppose if you resonate with something
someone tells you, you can manifest
it. Once a friend told me my mother
was going to die in a certain year.
She did grow ill and had to be put
in the hospital, but she survived.
My friend merely said my mother had
changed her mind. I could see this
especially having had a NDE myself
and having a choice to leave or come
back. Hard to tell too since if I am
in a room of psychics, I use my own
sensitivity and find someone who will
help me. Most times it is to validate
a choice I am considering. I do not
care much as then it seems too often
people are "waiting" for something to
happen. Of course, I get information
sometimes without asking and so I
will keep it in the back of my mind.
I was told once someone would be coming
in the Spring of a year which was 2
years in advance. Like clockwork, they
came. On the other hand, I know a very
good psychic who is very successful and
she admittedly cannot read me. Perhaps
this is something that is common and
if a person is pressured to "perform"
they might say what they feel a person
wants to hear?? I do not know since
I do not rely on psychics to lead my
life. I do realize there are lots of
sensitives out there and to what degree
it is hard to say. Some can be trained
to be more sensitive. Certainly there
is plenty of evidence to suggest that
the future can be seen. My problem has
always been that I do not want to see
it. I do feel strongly that if at all
possible, psychic readings are best
done in person. Obviously if they ask
for money to remove curses and the
such that is not appropriate.

Here is a link which may give you more
advice on how to choose a psychic~

http://www.indianewsmagazine.com/are-some-psychic-reading-really-a-scam/

If you are considering letting go of
dreams, also consider perhaps you did
not think enough of them to put the
action in needed to bring them to
fruition. You will have to dream some
new dreams and seek balance and peace
in your life. It can be difficult to
leave one's comfort zone and yet that
is how change comes...

blessings,
Zoe

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