I was afraid of that. You can bet that there is a strong likelihood that "enemies" played a role.
Soon I will be starting a newsletter and I will probably have to use a third party service that has gone through all the hassles to keep from being blacklisted to send it.
Thanks for the info.
Just select the ones you don't want to save and move them to the trash.
Now every time someone replies or sends me a message I am getting a pop up window (and a audio alert - which on my computer is a squawk noise) that repeatedly pops up until I go read or delete the messages.
I guess it is hard to have it both ways, but right now that is quite an annoyance. You are probably already on it, but if not, could you set it up to where there is just the message at the top of the page instead of the popup?
While I am whining and wishing - it would be great if there was distinction made between forum message replies and private messages.
Thanks.