Yeah, it can be hard to "swim against
the tide" but it can also be empowering.
I was a vegetarian for 15 years before
I began to eat meat again. For my blood
type, I am supposed to be a carnivore
but for while I was dealing with a
health crisis of colon cancer, I made
MY choice and the only struggle I felt
was in integrating and owning it myself.
I figured I would not allow others to
beat me up for the way I wore my hair
or the clothes I picked or the movies
I liked, I sure was not going to LISTEN
and take to heart what they had to say
about the food I ate. I laughed it off
and kept munching on my garden burgers.
Of course, it also seems politically
correct for others to ridicule being
a vegetarian or a vegan simply because
it is easy and culturally we have not
learned how beneficial vegetarianism
can be. If you grew up in a meat and
potato sort of life-style, it can make
others feel uncomfortable with little
things like you thinking they do not
like what food they are offering or
even the stress of "jeez, what can I
feed Zoe?". Here where I live, for
years, I was the only vegetarian. At
first it was a little challenging to
remember to cook something I could
eat, for example, Thanksgiving dinner,
but what I found was that if I was
focused on what I could eat and would
eat, and not allow the subject to focus
on what I would NOT eat, the fun and
game of teasing me became much less.
Many people began to become interested
in what I WAS eating and as they tried
the foods I prepared, were a little
eager to say, hey, "maybe I could be
part vegetarian~!". Most comments, like
the ones your BF is espousing are not
meant to rub your face in it as much
as tickle your funny bone. I was at
a restaurant once. It was an upscale
restaurant and packed when the harried
waitress came to our table to ask me,
"What would you like on your garbage
burger?". Of course, those around us
heard it and the waitress realized her
faux pas immediately. It was my choice
to rub her face in it, or to laugh. I
chose to laugh, and those who heard the
comment laughed with me. I know who I
am, just as you do. Be confident and
at peace with your choice to eat in a
way which you feel says YES to you.
When you can feel that total comfort,
others will sense it and you will have
become immune to any negativity which
arises from others, or your own internal
insecurities.
I still eat vegetarian and prefer it.
Be happy, be well,
Zoe
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