I'd sincerely feel very lucky to have such surprises. I generally like the "craziness"(good meaning) that many people have, no matter in what aspect of their lives.That of course when others aren't bothered by that.

Yeah, I like your idea very much.That is what makes a slight difference in a relationship also.Something different.A way of keeping your relationship alive and your partner far from feeling bored.

I think he is loosing a very entertaing part of you.But since you both chose each other you'll have to fall back from some of your demands/necessities.

Hi, I couldn't help but respond after reading this. I'm a married woman of 7 years now. You did nothing absolutly nothing wrong. That is what sex is all about, its how you keep the spice going so you don't look for it in other areas. He did a very wrong thing that really could affect your marriage and happiness from here on out. A good Sex life is 75-80% of a working stable relationship i believe. In my relationship its apart of our communication and our moods towards each other. When we are satisfied with each other in every aspect of our relationship we joke around teasing each other flirting nonstop and have sex on a daily basis sometimes more. If we are mad at each other we don't flirt and have spontaneous sex our communication also decreases. I think you need to sit down and explain to him how that hurt you and how it has made you not want to have sex with him in the future cause you don't know where he stands and it has made you feel like you had done something wrong in wanting to have sex with your own husband. When you are married there should be no guilt at all in having sex or even being kinky in any way. Sorry had to put in my two cents... He has really done you a disservice in making you question your sexuality, always know you are a sexy woman that should be appreciated for your sex drive there is nothing to be ashamed of period

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