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why is it so hard these day sto find a good man. most of the guys out there or boys are either dumb shits who call themselves "players" or are just low lives who don't know how to treat a woman, or want her back once they realize what their missing and once she learns she needs to move on in search of something better. well my search of something better only brought me pain and misery, even those few fun coversations and moments can't replace the pain i feel in my heart when you find out that they're ina relationship with someone else without even having the curtesy to tell you. women are strong, they deserve honesty and respect, if you tell them that you're talkint to five other girls, we'll see you for the loser you are and move on, but please DON'T WASTE MY TIME EFFORT AND ENERGY!!! I feel like giving up on love and hope and spending the rest of my life loving myself. I'm not needy, I don't have low self esteem and i don't need a man to make me happy.I've been in a relationship for 5 years and he wasn't the one. so i started dating only to find that there isn't much to pick from. I would like to meet someone whom I can share my life with, whom I can give fully of myself to because i have so much to give and so much to offer. I'm not ugly either, so why is it that all i keep getting out of dating is pain. I;m officially sick of it and giving up. that's the end of my venting, i feel a little better, but still very hurt and disappointed with tthe male species. The End
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- expectations cause us pain... lol...... drofinnah
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This is a reply to # 1,070,974i think perhaps instead of looking for a long termed relationship... which most guys are unwilling to commit to... one would fare better to simply live life one moment at a time... and thus learn to enjoy/savor every heartbeat... every breath that life has to offer is truly precious...
i'm reminded of a little story about an old man on his death bed... and his nephew curiously asked him... "uncle john... why is it that you never married"... to which the old man replied... "because i was always looking for mrs. right"... the nephew thought about his reply for a second or two and then asked... "but with so many women in the world... why couldn't you find one"...??? and the old man says... "i did... i found her... but it turned out that she was looking for mr. right"...
lol... ;-)
happiness can not be... nor should it ever be contingent on what others do... it must always come from within... "to thine Self be true"... each of us are responsible for our own happiness... our completeness as thriving human beings relies on this fact... for if one allows another to take that away... then to that degree is one allowing another to determine their emotional well being... in which case... one would likely always be in an emotional upheaval...
happiness comes from accepting people/places/things as they are... not as we would have them to be... but as they are... for if we can do that then will we be able to enjoy them as they are... without judging/criticizing or condemning... just as they are... that way you can "take em or leave em" as the case may be... and still go along your merry way... but believe it or not... that seems to be a very difficult task for some of us... because people seem determined to not be the way we would have them to be... lol... now aint that a riot...!!!
"expectations are premeditated resentments"...
"attachments and desires bring pain"...
so..."to thine Self be true"...
therein lies contentment...
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Happy New Year...!!!
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- Re: Are you a married man D? popoe
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- Re: Are you a married man D? #52537
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This is a reply to # 1,071,099Oh i don't have expectations, nor am I wanting a long term relationship...all i'm venting about it that men these days don't know howto act like men, or how to treat a woman. I'm veting that there aren't any good ones left, ones that have goals in life want a career and want a good woman, not just some blonde with big boobs as a trophy wife. men and women are just so materialistic these days that noone looks for what else people have to offer besides their looks.
- no... i am not... drofinnah
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This is a reply to # 1,071,099my wife ran off with my best friend... of course i didn't know he was my best friend at the time... so... it turned out that they both did me a tremendous favor... lol... ;-)
my 'x' was a nymphomaniac... which i always thought was her most outstanding... admirable... desirable characteristic... i mean... like... she really enjoyed sex... but it turned out that i wasn't the only one she was turning on... lol... ;-) i don't think she ever met a guy she didn't like... so... as far as which is worse... male or female... i think it's a toss up...
i've had several relationships since the 'x'... in fact the last one lasted over 10 years... but life has a way of dishing out situations that sometimes (due to our religious upbringing) we just can't deal with... and as a result the relationship got a little bit too one sided for me to deal with... so i bailed... i have lived alone for the past couple of years and have never been happier...
being alone is not as bad as most people make it seem... in fact i find it to be very pleasant... there is a wonderful freedom in being alone... but... the main thing is... there is a big difference between being alone... and being lonely... come to think of it...i can't remember the last time i had a lonely feeling... i spend most of my time meditating... reading spiritual material... reflecting... and in general just trying to discover who or what i truly am... and i think i'm onto something really great... lol... ;-)
i think life is whatever we wish to make it...
anyhow... didn't mean to write an autobiography... but remember... you were the one that asked... and the answer is still... no... no... no... no... not me... never again... no thank you... a relationship between two unhealthy people simply means your troubles are more than doubled...
"it's a wonderful day in the neighborhood"...
"i'm free"... "i'm free"... "i'm free"...
lol...
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This is a reply to # 1,071,057Oh dear,
All my life I was looking for a woman with substance, that someone special.
I found plenty of ladies with good intentions. Further I looked, more difficult it was to find that special lady. I came to the same conclusion, that all good ladies are already taken. Gone!
Then I had to start lowering the bar and found one that was nearly OK.
After 20 years in marriage, I’m a single man and rest of my life appears to be the same.
All ladies seem to have that imaginary hero in their mind!
Then they find what they are looking for!
In real life, reality hits in and that “hero” reduces in normal size with all common faults.
By that stage all the usual things are behind: Marriage, kids, mortgage etc.
Life goes on, often two people unhappy in it as well as kids and no way out!
That’s why single life is, all things considered, a happy life!
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This is a reply to # 1,070,974There's nothing wrong with guys being guys. The problem is you. You tend to attract losers. Loser guys are exactly who they are...losers! You like 'em, you bed them down, you stay with them. That's all on you, honey. Everything you vented on saying that you don't want...that's exactly what you've been accepting. Women like you get exactly what you deserve because you don't raise the bar. You settle. 50% of all the American males walking the sidewalks don't deserve a female partner. That means you'll have to do some work to find the good ones. Start asking yourself "What attracts losers to me and me to losers"...then and only then will you begin a needed change in perspective. And before you ask...I'm already taken. Thanks.- Re: Don't be disappointed in males, ... #52537
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This is a reply to # 1,071,449wow you've got some nerve...and don't worry you can stay taken i'm not interested!!!! This isn't just me by the way, there are a ton of women out there who have raised the bar and maybe because they have they aren't able to find someone. I don't look for losers nor do I attract them, it just seems that nowadays you can't find men anywhere out there who want to be a good father, who want to make you soup when you're sick and rub your feet, who want to send u cards or write you love notes when you're having a bad day, who want to be there for you, comfort you and protect you from the world. most guys are interested in either getting you in bed or no wait that pretty much all they're interested in. How many guys cheat on their girlfriends because they don't appreciate what they have, how many of you are materialist dumb jocks who can't cry during a movie, and instead make some immature joke instead. Show me a man who's willing to hold the door, pull out a chair, go to the opera or art gallery, have a picnic, take a bath together, go to the movies, play golf together without getting mad, show me a man who's not a player or immature idiot and i will show u a woman who is finally satisfied!
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This is a reply to # 1,071,511that's all you've got, i will never nor have I ever been disappointed with me, i love me, and i accept everything abou tme, all my flaws and all my gifts.- Yeah, you go on "loving you". MtnnnDewww
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This is a reply to # 1,071,524Take those lonely baths. Go to those lonely movies by yourself. Sit in a restaurant by yourself looking around nervously while everyone else has someone to talk to. Don't miss your next episode of "Oprah"...it's on in about fifteen minutes. Maybe she'll tell you how to rub your own feet...
- Yeah, you go on "loving you". MtnnnDewww
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