wombat
Hey, Beth, I had to suspend my bra-less-ness, for the reasons that you mention and also because wearing a bra protects, do you know what I mean? I bought a couple of el cheapo athletic bras at an evil discount store that are fine for day wear. They provide protection, support and do not bind. Now, when I actually wear something clingy or nice I will wear a regular bra, I'm afraid...it all depends on the destination:) And the athletic bras are not suitable for wearing under revealing/clingy clothes. They have seams, wide straps, white cotton. Veeery utilitarian. NOT sexxxxy.
I have some of those "shelf" type summer tops as well. My favorites have some spandex in them.
I'll bet that you don't look sloppy to others, Beth, I'll bet that you look sloppy to yourself. Just as I look sloppy, to my self.
I will still take off this danged bra whenever I can.
I can take off my bra without taking off my shirt, how about you gals?
How & why did we learn to do that? :)