"I realized I was not being judged by him but by myself. I was in his position – dying, wanting to say goodbye to those I loved, and then meeting people like myself not "getting it" – not getting that all the achievement, money or recognition in the world cannot be taken with you when you die. The only thing you take with you is the love you give away....." ~ Laurelynn Martin


The above is a quote from Laurelynn Martin's near-death experience. Rudensky, what she found out sounds alot like what you found out too!

Here is the link. It's a great site, The home page has links for other people's back to life experiences as well.

http://www.near-death.com/martin.html