Dear Melissa,

Can you attract a person through non-verbal communications? The other day, I went to a ballroom dancing. I witnessed that a leader was leading a follower very gently and passionately. He was also very aware of their dancing environment to protect her, not being stepped on by other dancers. After a while, I was sitting next to her; I was talking to a bar tender. He was on the way out, and she said to him, “Are you already going home? Do you love to eat Sushi?” She was quite aggressive. I could tell they talked to each other for the first time, but they had an instant bonding. At end, she asked for his e-mail address. I was going Wow! I love to make a non-verbal communicate like that. Any comments?