1 |
42.5% ( 51 of 120 )
My opinions and views are ridiculed and dismissed ...explanations [6]
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2 |
45.0% ( 54 of 120 )
I feel that I must defend my choices and actions ...explanations [7]
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3 |
39.2% ( 47 of 120 )
When there is a disagreement, I always end up apologizing for everything ...explanations [6]
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4 |
35.0% ( 42 of 120 )
My partner has shoved me, slapped me, pinched me, punched me, spit on me, and/or kicked me ...explanations [6]
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5 |
20.0% ( 24 of 120 )
My partner has beaten me in front of my children ...explanations [4]
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6 |
19.2% ( 23 of 120 )
My partner tells me that nobody else would want me and that I should be grateful that they put up with me ...explanations [4]
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7 |
24.2% ( 29 of 120 )
My partner has destroyed my personal belongings ...explanations [4]
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8 |
20.0% ( 24 of 120 )
My partner has coerced me into doing things that I find unpleasant, distasteful, and/or illegal ...explanations [5]
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9 |
8.3% ( 10 of 120 )
My partner has threatened my children ...explanations [2]
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10 |
7.5% ( 9 of 120 )
My partner has threatened my family members and/or friends ...explanations [3]
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11 |
12.5% ( 15 of 120 )
My partner monitors my telephone conversations and insists that they know my passwords and ID's ...explanations [4]
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12 |
6.7% ( 8 of 120 )
My partner has threatened to harm the family pet(s) ...explanations [3]
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13 |
20.8% ( 25 of 120 )
My partner has refused to allow me to leave during an argument ...explanations [5]
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14 |
14.2% ( 17 of 120 )
My partner takes my things away and returns them only when I agree with what they want or what they say ...explanations [3]
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15 |
15.8% ( 19 of 120 )
My partner doesn't allow me to maintain my personal friendships with other people ...explanations [4]
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16 |
17.5% ( 21 of 120 )
My partner constantly accuses me of cheating on them ...explanations [3]
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17 |
18.3% ( 22 of 120 )
My partner makes me feel that I can't do enough to "prove" how much I love them ...explanations [4]
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18 |
5.0% ( 6 of 120 )
I have had to quit school because of my partner ...explanations [1]
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19 |
10.8% ( 13 of 120 )
I have a hard time keeping a job because of my partner's behaviors ...explanations [4]
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20 |
11.7% ( 14 of 120 )
My partner refuses to discuss our finances or take action to get them under control ...explanations [2]
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21 |
9.2% ( 11 of 120 )
My partner controls our banking and credit card accounts and promises that they have everything paid on time ...explanations [3]
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22 |
20.0% ( 24 of 120 )
My partner blames everyone else for their problems ...explanations [3]
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23 |
10.0% ( 12 of 120 )
My partner tells me that my religious and/or spiritual beliefs are "wrong" ...explanations [3]
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24 |
6.7% ( 8 of 120 )
My partner often refers to my religious doctrines in order to force me to do things that I disagree with ...explanations [2]
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25 |
2.5% ( 3 of 120 )
My partner does not allow me to practice my religious and/or spiritual rituals ...explanations [2]
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26 |
4.2% ( 5 of 120 )
My partner forced me to adopt their religious and/or spiritual doctrines to prove my love for them ...explanations [2]
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