How many lovers in a lifetime is too much? 100? 200? 500? by bluepastry Blog entry

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How many lovers in a lifetime is too much? 100? 200? 500?

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Date: 7/15/2008 2:51:27 PM ( 16 y ) ... viewed 5283 times

watched the movie Sex and Death 101, it sucked, it was stupid. But It did make me wonder how many lovers are too much.

I will admit that my total is between 100 and 500. I will not say which or where.

Unlike Bill Clinton, all my lovers, every woman agreed to have sex with me and vice versa

Except for my Horny sister in law when I was only 14 years old, no we did not have intercourse, but she was all over me like white on rice.

I did have a similar experience at Theodore Roosevelt high School in the Bronx. My Male High school principal actually invited me to his office, allegedly for a conference and he got on his knees and begged me to let him service me.

This threw me and i was very upset and bolted from his office as he tried to grab my crotch. The principal, being a good liberal Democrat was protected by teacaher's who knew and the NYC Board of education never did anything. How sad.

My first lover was Linda and it was at a babysitting job on November 16, 1970. It as my teenage sweetheart. We had sex everywhere and often, until I met my first Blond named Margie. I was for awhile doing Margie and Linda on the same day. Linda took it really bad when I broke up with her and threatened to commit suicide.

I still think about Linda and what might have been and what a scumbag I was to her a young, horny, teenager. Margie lived in the North Bronx, a predominantly Irish catholic segregated area of the Bronx . She attended Catholic high school and was wild. her Parents were the identical twins of Edith and Archie Bunker, no kidding

Margie was the perfect sally struther, lil girl. Margie was way more wilder for 17 than I ever was, she drank, smoked, smoked pot, lsd, etc. She was a horny person who could never get enough sex and one night while i was visiting and her dad was out of town. She actually put sleeping pills in her mothers tea to try to put her to sleep so we could have sex. This kinda scared me.

A couple of years later when I returned to the Bronx for my dads funeral with my young, voluptuous girlfriend Doreen, Margi tried to get me to leave the wake and Doreen and have sex with her in the backseat of her car

I could go on withs stories of three in one day, how i was dating a mother and daughter when I was 34. The mom 45 and the daughter 23. No, i did not know the mom was married.

The time a temple ready LDS housewife whom I befriended tried to get me to take her and make love to her in the woods. My Salt lake City stories are long and often, it was a very wild time in my life. The 2002 winter Olympics in SLC, Utah was like the Rainbow festival. Sex was everywhere with everyone doing it. married men, Married women with 18 year old foreign workers, etc

So what is the right amount of lovers in a lifetime? Are we really just like animals and go into heat and just want sex? what keeps the horny male from becoming a rapist? Respect, self esteem?

what keeps the horny male from becoming a rapist? Respect, self esteem?Why do so many women actually date and become lovers with men on death row? they just want sex?

Is being with a new person about the thrill? The conquest? Why do we choose mostly beautiful women over average women?

The term sexua| orientation refers to the gender (that is, male or female) to which a person is attracted. There are several types of sexua| orientation that are commonly described:

Heterosexual. People who are heterosexual are romantically and physically attracted to members of the opposite sex: Heterosexual males are attracted to females, and heterosexual females are attracted to males. Heterosexuals are sometimes called "straight."
Homosexual. People who are homosexual are romantically and physically attracted to people of the same sex: Females who are attracted to other females are lesbian; males who are attracted to other males are often known as gay. (The term gay is sometimes also used to describe homosexual individuals of either gender.)
Bisexual. People who are bisexual are romantically and physically attracted to members of both sexes.
These days , there are many young women that prescribe to all three. I myself have been perceived to be gay by many so called open minded liberals who profile sexua| orientation. Being an athlete , camper, hiker, etc. I have known many men who say they are anti gay and are grossed out by the thought of being with a man, or so they say.

One of my best friends growing up in the Bronx was a Guy we will call Ralphie. He came over from Italy at a young age and slowly tried to assimilate the culture of the boy who hangs out on the corner and plays sports like handball, stick ball, etc. At an innocent age of only 16, an older Italian man named Ernesto would come around and lure Ralph and other boys into his hunchback ford with gifts of money, radios, etc. Ralphie and some of the toughest boys in the neighborhood were serviced by Ernie.

Yet, these guys would call other guys "faggots". I once asked then about their Homosexual experiences and they got enraged and said to me. it's not gay if ya get it, only if ya give it".

I often found it interesting when I would be sitting at a bar watching a sports event and macho men would walk up to me and ask if I as gay. I would respond "Why, do you like me"? This would freak them out and they would not know what to say. Why were they asking? Did they like me? Did they feel threatened by me because they perceived me as gay.

As a cameraman for the Houston Astros farm club, The Round Rock Express. I was perceived to be gay by the powers that be. During kiss cam, they would always yell to me. No gays on kiss cam, no gays on kiss cam! How would I know if someone were gay or not?

One of my strangest sexua| experiences was when my car broke down when I was living in San Diego, California. I was on the side of the Highway and a San Diego police Cruiser stopped. At the time, there were not too many women in police cruisers and I was surprised when she gave me a ride home. We kissed in the squad car and had sex in front of my house .

I found a particular airline to be very friendly in the skies and had actually bedded down, or seated down, two flight attendants and a flight attendant supervisor. One even offered me a "Continental breakfast".

There is actually a web page called the mile high club tales that discusses the exploits in the air.
http://www.milehighclub.com/tales/

My life is full of surprises, making it impossible to know what's just around the corner. I cannot possibly write all the things that i have experienced in my life or the mistakes I have made.

Just a few weeks ago while in Las Vegas, I turned down a 3-some with two sisters I met in my hotel casino. It was something that i would have dreamed about in my youth. But, as I get older. Discretion is the better part of valor.

Some idealistic romantics would like to believe that a person who is truly in love will never find themselves drawn to another person. This little Adam is a falicy, While living in many cities and visiting many countries. I have seen and met many married women who just wanted a wham, bam , thank you ma am.

Over the course of a lifetime, the odds are pretty good that you will eventually meet at least a few people that you are intrigued by, regardless of whether you're happy in your relationship or not.

an affair usually begins to weaken one's involvement to their partner. A person who finds them self rationalizing their behavior is more likely to rationalize having extra-marital sex again in the future.

In my last serious relationship which was 5 years ago. I found her to be a really funny and smart person. However; she was not a good lover. I knew that would be a problem. My Mormon lover before her was Marla and was full of energy and was beautiful, shapely and was crazy about sex. She was probably the best lover I ever had. I went from best to worst, not a good thing to do.

When sex is bad, so are many other things. I took some time away from her and found that two of her best friends wanted to have an affair with me. Of course I turned them down. I learned what it meant when a massage therapist asks you if they can finish you...lol

While In of all places Virgin, Utah. I met an alive young California girl who was full of energy, had pierced breasts, and wanted to make love in the desert and every where else for the week we spent together. My relationship with my last serious partner was over

I learned a couple of things, as you get older, you sometimes have to make the mature decision.

I learned that if you are on a vacation form you loved one. A hostel might not be a good place to stay. There are many, ready , willing and able girls there to share your experiences and sexua| gratification with.

I also learned that if a guy really wants to know if he is a loser with women. Go to Iceland.My Iceland experience featured great seafood and great female companionship. Speaking of Iceland, I recommend everyone watch the film Reykjavik 101.

I found one thing to be true about sex and death 101, If you want sex, just ask for it. In most cases you will find it and when it Will start finding you.

At this point in my life, i have actually enjoyed being celibate and free of serious or intimate relationships.

Take measures to strengthen your connection and make the effort to keep your love and passion alive throughout your years together. Your desire to stray will be minimal to non-existent because you will have virtually all of your needs met. You may still find yourself attracted to another person occasionally, but you'll be very clear that the sexua| energy is only a small piece of the whole pie. Because your partnership will be so satisfying in every department, you would be crazy to risk losing the complete package for a surface attraction.--