Do you actually want children and a family ever? Maybe not, maybe you think you do or think you should because we women are so pressed by society to settle down, marry and start procreating.

In my case I found I wanted a child but not the husband and I feel I'm pretty happy that way. I have a nice boyfriend but in no hurry to marry. I lacked the closeness of family in my life and my soul cried for a baby, so I had one. No need for the man.

Whatever the case may be, listen close to your heart and what it really wants. Maybe a man and no children? Maybe to be alone? Just because that isn't what society wants of us doesn't mean it's wrong.