thanks for the reply,

i agree it is most difficult to fulfill our deed of love with the ones closest to us even it sounds strange and the prophet counts nothing in his own land.
I believe that when i learned to be in complete harmony with myself and the ones closest to me (my kids, wife and family and friends) then and onlt then i can achieve the same outside of this small circle.
lucky most of the time i am in peace with myself and......

even i am not following a specific church or even religion anymore i have the prayer of asisi long time hanging on the wall of my office because i also like it.

have a blessed holiday season and a nice and peaceful slide into the new year and blessings to all curezone visitors.

thomas