I am sorry not to have posted " the mind of men" on Brain Boot Camp yet....  I will try to do it very soon...   Mean while remember we, (men and women) were prewired to be together... It sounds like you have found your soul mate...   It is a positive sign that he wants children, because to many male minds, children are just in the way or not even on the radar scope so to speak....   More on that in the blog entry..

You are at a terminal point in your life and of course want to make the right decision(s)...  It is too bad I am not closer, we could do lunch and discuss this more... You should pray and seek the blessing of GOD on your life at this time...

The prayer of Jabez  " Oh, that you would bless me indeed, and enlarge my territory, that your hand would be with me, and that you would keep me from evil, that I may not cause pain."  So GOD granted him what he requested.... I Chronicles 4:10

God is closer than you think; and has placed certain people in your pathway, for a reason....  Live girl and live large, that is what is expected of you in this life...  Life is an adventure, to be lived and enjoyed one day at a time....   If there is anything I can do let me know....   Everything will work out.....