Thank you Evanluck. that is very kind of you and very reassuring. Quite honestly for someone like me, a strong individual, it is really quite difficult and agonizing. It takes more strength to be quiet than to yell and scream. But I found that number one Allah does not like people who argue and will go away from them till they stop. Number two, the one who yells the loudest is not the one who is right and number three it is self defeating.

I have been watching the abuse ML is going thru and I see that no matter what he does or anyone else does, it doesn't matter so I learned from him that we should not be like the devil and be better than that so I am learning.

Before I use to argue with everyone. I just hurt myself. I made a lot of enemies along the way too. I have made decisions and like a warrior I stick by them. It is better to not say anything and allow God to correct your situation rather than running and making enemies out of a lot of people.

I find most people get angry and then forget anger but if you have a big argument, your words cannot be taken back. So in my older age of 55 I now find that being quiet suits me more and forgiving all. I don't hold grudges but I don't forget either. I just want to have peace and quiet in my life and if that means being alone well then so be it, it will be a quiet blog.

Tear, tear

God Bless you Evanluck,

SARA