Have picked on your blog; you can check mine out later...  A few words that may help you...    

1) You appear to have some confidence issues...  Almost everyone does are some time in their life...  You need to sit down and get a plan...  Check out several of my past blogs and you should see some ideas...  Or go to my web site @ http://www.simplytruth.com...   read the forum!!

2) Most people get the issue of religion confused by the contemporary world views...  A religion is any practice or routine that a person or persons follow religiously...  The current world view is that there is some holy place or thing that is needed in a person's life...  Not necessarily true; you do not have to belong to any church; or go to any special place at any special time to seek salvation and forgiveness from Almighty GOD!!  Any place any time, and you can offer your own prayer direct...  More on that later...

3) Relationships should be based on trust, love, (not just affection or physical attraction)  but you should know this...  If more people would come to realize that it is far, far better to take some time and really know a person before jumping into some relationship; things would turn out much better for all concerned...

4) A word of caution on Fasting; it should be done with some care and controls...  I may visit that again on an upcoming Diet blog...

Just some advice; from a mentor and life coach...   At least you are seeking some answers and appear to be an intelligent lady...   

 See ya... Kermit