- No Shame in Promiscuity by natropractica
18 y
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Blog: Herpes Nation
Herpes: There is no Shame in Promiscuity
I’ve been thinking about how often my patients and others I speak with want to emphasize very strongly to me that they didn’t get their herpes from promiscuity. I even state that in my own personal herpes story called “ My first year with herpes; or how I was re-born a modern day leper”. I wrote it in my story not because I think there’s anything wrong with promiscuity, because I don’t, but because I wanted to warn people that being in a monogamous relationship does not necessarily protect you from getting sexually transmitted infections.
It feels to me like those people so quick to want to distance themselves from those who may have gotten a STI from being promiscuous are buying into the ignoble lie that those who are generous with their sexuality deserve to be punished for it. How sad to feel this way.
I am a sex-positive person. I’d like to see more sex and less violence, ignorance, intolerance and pettiness in this world. I wish there was more sex and that sex be more honest and human in the media. I encourage all of my herpes patients to have a healthy and fulfilling safer sex life with an anti-viral gel and condom/dental dam. I believe in sex.
I don’t live a promiscuous lifestyle not because I see anything wrong with it but because it simply isn’t my lifestyle. I’m a loner by nature and not that social, plus I live in a rural community of 6000 people where the average age of the women is about 20 years older than I am.
There is no shame in promiscuity. Promiscuity is just as valid a sexua| choice as monogamy. I can see the beauty and spirituality in promiscuity. I can hear the Goddess calling us to share the gift of pleasure generously with each other as if it were a delicious meal or a treasured piece of music. I feel her encouraging us to dance with each other, be intimate with each other and bond with each other. I also see the tackiness and self-destructiveness in some people’s practice of promiscuity, but I don’t blame the promiscuity, I blame the pain and the confusion driving the promiscuity.
Our closest animal relative- the Bonobo chimpanzee, that shares 98% of our DNA, is never monogamous, very promiscuous, very bi-sexual and prone to orgies.
For all of you who are living a promiscuous lifestyle I want you to know you’ll get no judgment from me and that I respect your for having the courage to defy the sexuality imposed by the Vatican and other religious conservatives.
For those of you who make life hard for promiscuous people and anyone who is different, you are the ones who should be ashamed in my opinion. I also want to point out your hypocrisy because most of the people who I hear condemning promiscuous people enjoy watching pornography whether they admit to it or not.
It’s a blessing to share the beautiful and wonderful things in this world. Sex isn’t always beautiful and wonderful, but it can be. It’s all about the intent of the people involved. You bring everything you are and everything you have ever been with you when you have sex. Those of open hearts and open minds can share the gift of sex generously with how many people they choose and there need never be any shame involved.
Christopher Scipio
Homeopath/Herbalist
Holistic Viral and Immune Specialist
http://www.antiviralgel.com
http://herpesnation.blogspot.com
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- Go ahead LIBERALS act like chimps... by #50115
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...BRILLIANT. The thing that separates us from the chimps is logic and deduction and common sense. In this day and age of AIDS and other horrible diseases it's great that you have a guy like christopher that looks down on "conservative" activities like loyalty to your spouse, ha ha ha...such brilliance. The future of liberalism looks bright: you abort yourselves of baby liberals, and you want to sleep around like chimps in the AIDS era, and hey gay marraiges are your politician's main priority, oh dont forget NAMBLA...yup the future of liberalism is SO self destructive that the only chance you guys have is the continuing brainwashing of those that watch MTV, BET and other such brain dead channels...but then again that crowd is too lazy to vote thank GOD. Oh I discovered the missing link that has puzzled scientists for years: the missing link was a liberal, ha ha ha...
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- Re: Go ahead LIBERALS act like chimps... by ren
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| Be nice. There are better ways of expressing disagreement.
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- Re: Go ahead LIBERALS act like chimps... by Celcius
17 y
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Be nice. There are better ways of expressing disagreement.
I think not ren ! This liberal gay promiscuous agenda is out of control and the hypocracy is beyond what any good country and their people should have to stand for! Considering the hate speech laws are being inacted to protect all deviants and jail those who dare point a finger at them! This is all about destruction of the family and the american culture that is hanging on by just a thread! Gays lesbians pedophiles
bisexuality all part of an agenda to destroy America and the American family! The tyranny of the minority with big brother and his judicial club supporting it all!
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