It has been a question that is at the heart of every human being... 

 Why do we do what we do?? 

Many times we respond based on our human make up... This is our prewired, sexual, make up...  Certain things are that way because of our sexua| being...  our body, and sexua| drive...  We are attracted to the opposite sex, we have desires and wants based on our sexua| make up...  This is not right or wrong, it is just the way we are... Like it or not!!    So for many of our desires and thoughts the why is built in so to speak, folks...   It is the way we are;  so just get over it folks and move on down the trail, there is nothing we can do about it now...  {Trans sexual, sex changes. and such detours that do not really change the facts, and only blur the truth... We are not going there folks....}

Many of our Whys are learned behavior...  Good and bad...  DUH!! You can see this every day in the way people act with each other.... Some learned  things on the why side are positive and good for all involved....  The others are not....  What we need to do is stop, look and listen to what is being said and done by others...  Then adjust our responses to the those actions...  This allows the why to be answered in a direct and positive manner.... Not that the result is always positive, but it should be the product of our best effort to respond to the why of the situation at hand... {There are times that require Stearn and direct action that may not always be pleasurable but is needed at that moment....}   i.e. do what you have to, keeping in mind your responsibility, and the judgment to apply necessary force(of will) to cope with the situation at hand...  If you are confused, we need to talk...

Therefore we respond or react to situations as required by the considerations.... This is the whole bases of so many of the Whys of life...  That is why folks..... This is how we act and what we do so often folks... Because of one of the above listed reasons....

Key thought is to "keep you self prepared by having a well trained brain and learn to keep yourself on an even keel"   This requires you to continually learn and adjust your life as needs be...  Seek GOD in your life, have a loving open heart and listen to the still small voice, which is there to help direct your pathway in this existance....  This is the most important answer to the why of life....  Be willing and ready to help others... 

If you get this right then you can, move on in your life much smoother... See ya...