I heard him say: "solved that problem"!
My internal question to hearing that is: "Was the root cause ever addressed?"
The true root runs deep in the "Enchanted Garden Onion". I've become quite familiar with this root over the years. If the "root cause" was ever addressed I would most certainly have heard about it. That would really be a miracle! Then we'd have a Miracle Garden Onion! ; ~ )
Based on my long time observations and my most recent insights I can now say that complaints need to be presented in true dialogue if there is any hope for a real resolution. That kind of communication can only be possible if the one with the complaint is truly ready, willing and able to commit themselves to a dialogue that is devoted exclusively to resolution. If the one who is initiating a declaration of complaint is simply seizing an opportunity to "blow" their emotional "stack" then that intention needs to be known and distinguished from an intention for true resolution. Otherwise all that might be accomplished is the perpetuation of keeping emotional hostages. People adjust their behavior just to avoid be "fired upon" by another's anger and possibly their rage! Then the root cause is never even considered.
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A little Astrology that support the above:
"On the 7th Jupiter our planetary teacher in the sign of Virgo moves retrograde and as it is traveling now with the North Node (karmic Destiny) again we have a lesson in what we see as details and facts and reality. Jupiter will remain in its retrograde motion trying to bring some clarity to issues until it moves direct on May 9th so expect that your visions of what things should be and what they are perhaps will not sync as well as we might like, but isn't this the only way to make changes? To see what must be changed and then to learn perhaps that to heal self and the planet (a Virgo wish) we must do the work, Another Virgo saying."[1]
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Notes:
[1] http://www.carolbarbeau.com/january-2016-astrology-overview.html
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Keywords:
root cause, Enchanted Garden Onion, miracle, complaints, dialogue, resolution, communication, emotional hostage
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