This is a subject that most people do not really understand much about!

 While we all have thought about the ramifications as to the size of the male penis; just how has it really effected people's sex life?   Many think that it needs to be a certain size both in length and width; yet there are many other factors involved!

 ** First, the length of most women's vagina is about six to eight inches in depth, while the male penis average is 5.5 inches long;  therefore the fit is good...  Therefore if the Penis is too long may well hit the womb, or if too wide can actually hurt the female!  So with good foreplay; the sexua| | intercourse will work out satisfactory...  

 ** Maybe another fact to consider; for the woman.  90% of the "feeling" is in the lower 10% of the vagina,  while in the man 90% of "feeling" is in 10% at the head of the penis!  Therefore both will male & female can have "feelings" no matter the size of the penis;   while the deep thrusting on the part of the male; is made to deposit sperm as far as possible into the vagina to encourage pregnancy!  HUH!   

 BTW: another factor is that a virgin female (most young women) have a tight vaginia, thus they can feel the male very well...  But a the feamle ages and has children, their vaginia becomes looser and tends to lose sensetivity during sexua| intercourse!   Dear women; why not start "Kegel Exercises" which will help tone and improve both your and your male partner's sexua| joy?  There are some good post at   http://simplytruth.com/forums/index.php  go to the "Health & Intercourse" board for several items which may help you!

*** From an article posted in Men's Health:

Better Self Image about the Penis: 

Men of all shapes and sizes experience anxiety about the size of their penis at some point in their lives. In some cases the feelings may pass, but for some unfortunate others, it can be very stressful. The concern for size can lead to failure in relationships and even complete avoidance of sexual| experiences. Though there are many available treatments to increase your penis size and your self image, it is important to know what a normal penis is and is not!

Some men have a short or fat penis when flaccid but it actually stretches and expands a lot when an erection is achieved. Others can have long looking flaccid penis but it barely changes in size when erection occurs. It simply just becomes more stiff. Men who see other men like this in showers usually feel as if something is wrong and directly affects their self image.  Showing men all have some form of envy!

A flaccid ( non erect) penis ranges from 2 to 5 inches. The average size of an erect penis is about 5.5 to 7 inches. Guidelines for selection of penis enlargement surgery recommend that only men with a flaccid penis length of less than 1.6 inches or an erection length of 3 inches could be considered.

Of course a man’s self image is directly related to his performance in bed.   It is noted than men who are more endowed seem to have more confidence and better sex lives than those who are less fortunate. Not to say that a man with a smaller penis isn’t able to have a good sex life, but well endowed men have been known to have more confidence in themselves.  {Confidence almost anywhere in life will tend to make for a better result!}

Although it is possible for a man to feel better about the way he views himself;  when having a larger penis.   It is important to consider your partner’s ability to receive such girth.  {Many woman are not able to be penetrated with a penis that is too large.}  BTW: Black women tend to be better able to accommodate the larger girth!   It can cause much pain, discomfort and even damage a woman’s vagina.  BTW: Anal intercourse is not in the realm of normal sexual| intercourse, since it is not intended to produce children, and may well injure the person who is being sodomized! 

***{ As a man,  I do not understand why any woman would want anal sex, unless it is some  vain attempt to placate a man and/or avoid pregnancy!  While I can see where certain males, would feel driven to perform this unnatural sex act of anal insertion, why not just have him go into the shower and wax his penis?}

In conclusion, men have different kinds of penis and it is important to know what is normal before jumping the gun on your self judgements.   Not every man’s penis looks the way it does from when it is flaccid to erect.   If you are really concerned then why not see a psychiatrist  or your doctor before committing to any permanent solutions. Do lots of research and make sure you know the facts before feeling down about your self.

 So there is a lot difference and therefore many solutions to the question as to what is best for whom!   People are resultant and have and can over come almost any problem placed before them!  If not there would not be anyone to read this blog... sexual| intercourse should not be over simplified or made some form of basic entertainment or a ritual of just some wanton desire for pleasure!     sexual| satisfaction can be had and controlled to the satisfaction of each involved if there are certain considerations involved!  HUH!

 ***  Remember the real reason for sexual| contact is not just some form of lust, it is a necessary part of human existence, and should be controlled so that it provides the pleasure of experience, while continuing the species!  How do you feel about your sexua| experiences?  Good, Bad, or Disappointed?