No sex or bad sex

I am in a fairly new marriage, just over one year, and our sex life is really bad. Granted we have had some unusual stressors, but my sex drive has never diminished. My husband is okay with once a month, then it's "stick it in and go until it hurts". I feel unwanted, or undesired and even though it's all about more than the surface stuff, I am pretty hot. Nothing. We have talked about it in every way imaginable, gently to heated, yet I am not only the "odd man out", but I also get to feel like some creepy sex-crazed girl...it doesn't feel good. Literally. Just getting it off my chest. Thank you. Tweet