You can always find support around people. Just don't be afraid of it. I am happy you don't, and thanks for sharing it with us. I had some Depression problems. I can't even imagine what would I if my wife doesn't help me with it. Because I didn't understand I had big problems.
I figured out the connection between Depression and smoking after reading this article: https://www.worldvaping.com/nicotine-replacement-therapy-nrt-efficient-way-to-quit-smoking/ Frankly saying I was shocked and stopped smoking immediately.
After, my wife introduced me to do. Ann. She has helped US. I started to smile; it was the 2nd step after quitting. A few months later, I began to see results.
All I can to suggest is to be close to your man, even if he says he doesn`t need you at this moment. Don't listen to him)
I wish you all the best!