Thank you for your story and insight!! I have come to the point that I really don't care what my family thinks about our decision for our son!! I believe like you said that it is his decision, being that it is his body. My husband, brother, nephews,and father never had a choice. I want to give my son that opportunity to decide for himself. Hopefully he will respect that later in his life. I think it is a personal choice for each family and others beliefs need to be respected. Thank you again so much for your thoughts and support on the issue.