Just place it anywhere warm. Stand it in hot water for a few minutes, leave it in the sun, it doesn't matter. You wont hurt the oil. I left mine in hot water for too long once and it was all hot and yukky when I put it in my mouth. VCO is very stable and a little bit of heat wont hurt it.

Hmmm....that's interesting. I use the same thing and at room temp mine is quite liquified. Is your's cold pressed? Mine is not.

Cold Pressed VCO liquifies at about 76*F, so you could liquify it in luke warm water. You'll want to be careful not to liquify it in hot water and try to use it, you can get a very nasty oil burn.
You can also just put a spoonful in your mouth, since internal body temp is around 98*F, it will liquify in a matter of seconds.

If it's really cold, like in winter, you may need to let the container sit somewhere warmer for a bit. Otherwise, I think y'all are making this sooooo complicated. Just get a spoon, scrape some up, and put it in your mouth. It will melt within seconds.