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Looking for love (sex) in all the wrong places...
(Forgotten Words!)

What is this love we seek? What really makes a marriage? Is it more than just the attraction, sexua| activity, or social status and security... It is more than convenience, and feeling good, it is about developing an eternal life style!

Date:   6/30/2010 9:32:04 PM ( 14 y ago)

   Psychoanalysis:  

  Sex, what and why?

   " Knowledge opens all the senses to the wonder of creation;  while ignorance seals them up, and leaves the animal propensities unbalanced by rejection, enthusiasm and taste...   Where ignorance beholds nothing but a rough, inorganic mass,  yet instruction discerns the intelligible record of the primal convulsions of the world; the secrets of the ages before man was; the landmarks of the elemental struggles and throes of what is now the terraqueous globe!"      - Anonymous

 The institution of marriage is under attack as the key or pivotal point in the relationship of the human race... 

 Instituted of God; It has existed since the Garden of Eden, and has been the bed rock of the fabric of our existence...

 What is this institution anyway?   This will be a method to access the normal one male one female relationship of marriage...  These other deviations of marriage are just a pretense, copy  or a want to be!

 It is kind of like when does a duck become a bear?  Answer Never!     Only the original  male - female relationship is valid, because  it has to do with procreation, and when does any same sex group of persons begat children?  Answer Never!  Got it!   { This is another Truth posted for you who are ignorant of such things !}    It may not be fair to you,  but by God it is the Truth like it or not!

***  Since marriage is primarily co-operative {something over looked today}, and nations are built upon family life, it is up to the married ones, then to employ in their daily lives those ideas and habits which will react to the welfare of themselves, their families, and to the whole social order! 

 First:  For those of you who are or were married...   The person you married is not the same person you married all those years ago!  This does not mean that  they have become  metamorphic or were transformed into some entirely different person...   Just that they grew into the person you see today!

 BTW: We all grow and change, hopefully for the better!  It is just part of life! Huh  So just maybe you can understand this explanation of the Truth! Oh, I am sure there are some out there who disagree or do not like the Truth, but it still is what ever is the Truth! 

  *** One of the most popular and unrealistic parts on the misconception of marriage is the usual fantasy played out in books and other entertainment media about the how Charming Handsome Prince marries the Beautiful Princess and they live happily ever after!  HUH! 

 This is where most of the problems in marriages today come from; false assumptions and unrealistic expectations...  We have heard of some million dollar weddings, with people actually putting on an entertainment production in the guise of a wedding;  which usually just sets up a failed relationship!

 The wedding is an exchange of vows, not a show full  of wows!   

 Wither you have children or not the marriage is a bonding which places two people of the opposite sex together, so they can learn to share and care...   They should not be guided by selfishness and personal will...   They need to learn to become aware of all the many things that can kill a marriage...  The married persons take a vow before God, to love the other for their lifetime!   

 Now the word love is actually an ongoing word, it never ends, yet many people today will say " I don't love you any more!"   But that they are expressing is the loss of a feeling or an emotion,  because love never ends, it endures forever!

 People will and do fall short, we all fail in many things in many ways, yet our life goes on...  Since all people will fail, we must learn that in this life one of the most important things is to have a love that does not keep count of wrongs...  Married or not we need to learn to forgive others who trespass against us; to not keep any record of past wrongs!

 You have the opportunity to restore any past wrong, forgive any transgressions and to extend your love to all those around you!   This is what Christ meant when He said. " Love your neighbor as your self!"

 Who is your neighbor?  Just the guy or gal next door?  Or just the people in your school, or work place? Or just those in your city or town?  Or Only those who live in the same country?  Or Maybe just those who believe as you do?  

 I would say it is all the above and many which you can not see...

 So what is a marriage all about?   It is really about the expression and commitment of love practiced and developed not only toward your spouse, but to all those whom God places on your pathway of life!

  Learn to live it dear friend!

{ We may get back to this most important subject later .... )

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