what kind of god would allow eternal torture? where is the mercy? where is the kindness? where is the grace? where is the justice?
it is a lie of man that there is eternal torment. it is a sales tool of the "church". we have free will. we can choose life or death. many choose the way of death - they do not want to exist any more. that is their choice. perhaps they dont see any other way out. perhaps they have judged themselves unworthy. perhaps they dont see any way for them to change. and whos fault is that? god can change anyone who comes to him. but those who claim to represent him and lead people to him fill their heads with dread and offer them no plan to change, just a plan to live forever. what good does that do? for many, their lives are already a living hell. why perpetuate that? it is lies that bind them. the truth would set them free. and the truth is there is a way to change.