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Attractive People
My head is reeling. Where are all the attractive guys?
Date: 3/27/2006 9:44:23 PM ( 18 y ) ... viewed 3525 times I had a revelation (of sorts) on Friday. I am a caucasian female. I realized that of all the caucasian males I know or have even ever MET (famous people don't count), the vast majority are not very attractive. I could only think of a handful who are truly handsome and very attractive. Quite a few who are reasonably good looking although not particularly attractive, meaning "all right" and the rest (boatloads) are actually NOT good looking and NOT attractive. (All of this meaning physically, as an observation - of course when you know and like someone you don't really notice this).
I was almost flabberghasted. I had never noticed this before. Yes, most of them are nice guys, great guys, my friends or amicable acquantances. But they are not good looking. They are NOT physically attractive. Quite a few are actually repugnant.
Lest you think I live in Uglyville, I have traveled all over the world, have friends in many different cities, so this is a somewhat broad observation.
This isn't to bash on guys. But what are my chances of finding a guy to date and then marry? I can't think "EWWW" about someone I marry. I can't find his hands, or his teeth repulsive! So it looks like I might end up with someone of another race. I am particularly attracted to Asians. Eurasians are really good looking, too.
And what is the least attractive thing? An unhealthy guy. Sometimes they can't help it, and there are people who can love them anyway. But if they are very unhealthy, and on an unhealthy track, I don't think I could spend my life with them. Can I kiss someone with parasites and tons of fillings? Can I hold hands with someone who has clammy skin and a circulation problem? Can I spend time in close spaces with someone who emits lots of smelly gasses?
I don't think I can. And this eliminates so many men!
Am I a bad person? Where did this come from?
I am pretty confused right now. My head is spinning from noticing that there are so many men I know who aren't fun to look at, and I find the thought of touching them to be gross. There are some exceptions, don't get me wrong but... (And in case you are wondering, I'd rather be with a yucky guy than with any girl, I am NOT lesbian. Frankly I can just stay single until the right man comes along, even if that means NEVER.)
My cousin's wife sure is lucky! My cousin is one of the most attractive caucasians I have ever met, and a super great guy, too! She caught one of the FEW. (He is lucky as well - she is a great, fun, smart, beautiful and caring person).
It will be interesting to see what the future holds.
p.s. I know appearances are only skin deep, it's what is inside that counts, etc. That is a separate topic altogether, and important. I am addressing just one topic here, which is physical ATTRACTIVENESS.
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