not just girls but I do appreciate your candor...I have met many a man who said they loved me... but when I told them I was only attracted to women... they would tell me of their sexua| abuse as a child... I think because I am nice to everyone, they see me as someone who they can take a chance with... without suffering humiliation...and they would be correct...even though I would not be interested in a physical relationship... This has occurred to me at least 10 times in my life... I don't believe gender is the issue but rather... we do what we do... I am mostly celibate, against my will... but I can always hope...

Man can live about forty days without food, about three days without water, about eight minutes without air, but only for one second without hope.
-- Author Unknown