unfortunately it is not generally group three that gets sick. my cousin is dying of cancer, doesn't have a clue that his diet sucked, doesn't have a clue he needs to change it, listens to the drs like they are God and thye tell him with chemo and radiation, he will get to live 3 extra months.

about the happy people...i have been around them and i like it. they are a safe haven, you know you can always go to them if you are upset because they will get your mind off it. tammy faye messner was one of those. and, she and rowe never had one fight their entire marriage. he said she was happy and upbeat all the time. she woke up that way. everyone loved to be around her. i don't think it was fear, i think it was love.