I wanted to clarify my last sentence. I ment i always thought it made more sense to have less understanding of the cookie cutter image then for people that are different.   [End]
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Not sure i belive in SB,but i agree we all need alot more understanding of others who are different from ourselves.I love meeting others who are different from myself,but rarley does that happen.Most i meet are cookie cutter mentalities!Not true to themselves to be who they truly are.But instead either live through someone else or are who they think others want them to be. We are all different for a reason.To learn. Nothing to learn if we were all alike.I always thought it made more sense to have less understanding if we were too much alike, but not because we are different.   [End]
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How about going to a sexual anonymous meeting? Maybe listening to others with the same problem can help you. Pay attention to how you act around woman:what you say, or dont say,how u act ect... And try to change those things! Its an energy thing your putting out there. Also you might be depressed.We do things to fill a void in ourselves. Good Luck!   [End]
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Maybe he went limp because you moved to fast.Also he couldve been intimidated by the fact that you were the agressor(sp?)and he isnt used to that.I would chalk this up to a learning experience. Now you know what not to do, at least until you know the person much better! Dont beat youself up!It’s ok weve all made mistakes!   [End]
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Ask who your with how they like it.Then add a little of what you think he’d like.Last but most important,ENJOY YOURSELF DOING IT!tHAT ALONE IS HALF THE BATTLE! Have Fun!   [End]
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Im all for people figuring out who they are and what makes them happy.BUT this isnt the right way to do it!I think you should get a divorce and stop living a lie!   [End]
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The nerve of some people!God only knows what other things you dont know about!Sounds like he has the ”grass is greener”mentality!If he wasnt doing this to you it would be someone else. Id move on no questions asked! So many nice guys out there..............................why be with someone who obviously doesnt care! When one door closes another one will always open up!   [End]
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I wouldnt have any desire to be with someone like this.I think i have to agree with flowergirl! Too me it screams out lack of respect!I do however can understand if he doesnt like it.BUT the insenstive comments are just rude! I also think it’s a cop out.I mean i think anyone can learn to like something, you just have to practice!   [End]
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No i dont think i would ever have a threesome! Dont think i have the right personality for that.BUT i have fatasized about being with two men.My #1 fantasy is a man in uniform!   [End]
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It is kind of awkward at first.Sometimes if im feeling shy or no words are coming to my mind,but i want to talk dirty or hear him talk dirty.I ask him a dirty talk question.Then i know what is in his head at that time, then i just elaborate off of what he said.Works everytime!   [End]
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We can control our thoughts,it’s just that some of us choose not too!Focus on another hobbie!   [End]
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The more a person feels like they cant do something, whatever it is ,the more they will want to.That’s human nature! Christian or not all men and most woman look at porn.And christians are taught that it’s not right....hence my first sentence. If a man says ”i look at porn because you dont do it for me” is full of it!It’s just usually what they will say to shut you up.It’s really about them and their issue.JUst like cheating! Id say if you left this person because he looks at porn,id say your in for a rude awakening if you think you’d ever find a man that didnt like it.It’s reality.   [End]
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Dont get caught up in thinking ,”i can fix her” that will only be setting yourself up.Noone can fix anyone! We are all on a differant wave length, and for a reason.The reason is we are all here to learn something, out of the good or bad things that have happened to us! It takes a certain person to handle someone with issues of ptsd,depression ect.MOst important is to educate yourself if you choose to be with her.Learn how you can be a help and not a hindrance. MOving on and trying to find someone w/out any issues is pretty slim.But dont let that keep you from moving on if you dont feel y ...
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One thing in life you will never be able to do without severe consequences is to go against your gut feeling.Especially something as important and serious and life changing as marriage. Whatever is an issue now will still be an issue when you get married.Plus many more responsabilities and stresses,babies to go with.It only gets more complicated! And that goes for him as well.Life gets really hard and things are unpredictable and anyone who has a weekness for drugs or alcohol will always struggle with those issues, even with therapy! I married very young i broke up with my H.S.sweethear ...
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Hi Shelley, Would you please tell me what my numbers mean?In astrology im cancer/sun-pisces/moon and virgo/rising.If that helps you. Ive been told my life path is an 11. I would like to know if my life will ever make sense? my numbers are: 6-27-1967 my husbands are: 2-9-1967 Thanks Alot! Nutjob   [End]
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