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The S attempts to make the target responsible for the consequences of the actions taken by the S. ”You have to do this act or I will say that you are being difficult.” or ”Well I have incurred an obligation to a third party and we are now relying upon you to agree to this request.” I once had a friend book a vacation, hotels, air fare, time off work, and then while she was enthusiastically celebrating her anticipation by sharing with us her plans, she turned to me and said ”So, we need someone to stay at the house and take care of the cats and pets. You will be ...
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