Here’s one way you can help yourself: Get familiar with the reincarnation. I don’t know if your belief system allows that type of thinking, but it is not too hard to realize that really we are all indestructible souls who are born again and again and again... And when you realize that, you realize that your husband is not your first love. This is probably a 1000th time that you were born. And you’ve had thousands of sex partners before. And so did he. And then life stops at some point, and we continue where we left off. Still feeling like he had something you haven’t? If you ca ...
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You can’t make him stop it - only he can do that. But what you CAN do, is make his life outside of gambling so good that he doesn’t even think about it. Since he’s in the military, it is quite possible that he’s away from home too often; maybe that’s at the root of the problem. Every one of us needs to do something for himself/herself. But when job or something else doesn’t allow you to have good sex, good time with friends or family, fun time, and so on, then an addiction starts. Where happiness is lost, that’s where an addiction is found. Try to show him that there are other things ...
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Hi there, You’re not alone in that respect - many (especially women) feel the same! And I have met some who went from being totaly shy and even negative about it to loving it. When you’re all alone, try to think about receiving oral sex and what is it that makes you feel negative about it. You may feel like he’s too close to a ”forbidden zone”, or when you were younger you might’ve heard tasteless jokes about bad smell ”down there”, or you may be afraid of the impression you’re goind to leave (one cannot enjoy sex and worry what his/her parnter is going to think - they are going to t ...
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Jesus and Satan were having an on-going argument about who was better on the computer. They had been going at it for days, and frankly God was tired of hearing all the bickering.Finally fed up, God said, ”THAT’S IT! I have had enough. I am going toset up a test that will run for two hours, and from those results, I will judge who does the better job.” So Satan and Jesus sat down at the keyboards and typed away.They moused . They faxed. They e-mailed. They e-mailed with attachments. They downloaded. They did spreadsheets. They wrote reports. They created labels and cards. ...
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Probably the most overlooked cause of infertility and also prostate and testicular cancer are so called ”estrogenic chemicals” in the enviornment (or food and water). In a nutshell, plastics that are used so often to store food (like can lining, plastic bottles, plastic microwavable plates and dishes) and other things like pesticides, and evem toys, make-up etc. are all endocrin disrupters. They stimulate our horomone receptors, but never let go. Most frequent results of that? In women it’s the breast cancer and infertility, and in men, it’s testicular cancer, prostate cancer, and in ...
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I would venture a guess that it’s probably emotional rather then physical issue... perhaps some form of deep seated anxiety about sex. Have you ever masturbated, and if yes - how did it go then? If it was different, i.e. no premature loss of erection, then the problem is definitely not physical.   [End]
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I feel for you - it’s hard enough just reading your story, and I cannot imagine how hard it must be to be not only abused by brothers, but also by parents! I’ll try to just stick to your questions: 1. First of all - you HAVE to go to police. This is no joke. If your brother was stealing your toys, well then you could resolve that with him. But sexual abuse is the worst form of physical abuse and doing it so early in one’s life points to some serious troubles. If no one reacts to their behaviour they will with time only become worse, until one day someone gets seriously hurt. Therefor ...
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Being a male myself I can tell you that not all males are like that. However, I do think that in western society, especially in N.America, a very large percentage of males are like that. I would dare say that sadistic attitude in bed with no regard for partners feelings is a good proof of their deep rooted problems - they basically need professional help.   [End]
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He will probably try again to hurt her before the police get to him. He may even try to kill her. In her place, I’d move out of town just to be safe, and then would make sure that no one has my contact info at least until this guy ends up in jail. The problem is that he will direct all his rage at her, and if he’s not in jail, he will look for her probably to kill her. I am not kidding. That’s why it’s best to stay as far as possible from him. Also - how about some self defence classes? Aikido, or similar? That may help her not only to defend herself if attacked by him again, but ...
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Get familiar with ins and outs first! (pun intended) Your vagina is only about 3-3.5 inches deep. Most penises are longer then that. Therefore your man needs to be a little more gentle and careful, otherwise he will hit the cervix which can be, as you noticed, painful. I also noticed that when woman has a bit of anxiety about sex, and is not 100% relaxed, she is more likely to feel pain down there.   [End]
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The picture is clearer now with these important details... and sounds to me like you also know what was/is going on quite well... I don’t envy your situation. You know as well as everyone else, that if it were just the two of you, you could say - see ya - and that would be all. But with the child, it’s not simple at all. To me it is most amazing how mothers are capable of hurting their own children, with absolutely no regards for their needs. Whatever happened to the ”mother’s instict”? If she had problems with sex in her prior relationship, that should’ve been a big red flag. Als ...
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Exactly. If you want something to last a long time, start it on the new moon. That includes keeping calories or poisons in your body. So if you eat more on the new moon, you’ll get fat quicker then otherwise. If, on the other hand, you want something to NOT last a long time, to get rid of it quickly, then start it some time after the full moon. Not on the full moon as that’s a very stressful aspect, but rather a little later. Then poisons will leave your body faster.   [End]
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Seems like a ”bait and switch” type of deal to me. What made her want to be with you so badly? Are you rich? Lawyer, dentist, surgeon, business owner? Is she the lazy type who just wanted someone to take care of her and she knew how to get that? Did you try to tell her you need to have a serious conversation and then ask her if she’s noticed that she is avoiding you? Ask her to be perfectly honest with you and tell you why she’s doing it. Don’t let her avoid the issue - do it when she’s relaxed and not expecting it and when everything is in order. Did she stop having sex with you ...
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What is it that you’re looking forward to with this girl/woman? Getting aids or some other std? Being treated like dirt? Try asking yourself those questions. I don’t think that you are not smart enough to know that she is cheating; after all she DID cheat on you and told you about it, albeit with a girl - and you chose to ignore that. Some other things you may want to look into: how was your mother towards you? Was she really respectful, loving, caring, gentle, helpful, your friend? How was your father with her (and did he really spend any time with you and teach you how to respect y ...
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”And, I have to disagree that a child of 8 is aware of the damage that they are causing by poor behavioral choices. ” Hardly anyone in this world is fully aware of the damage they are causing in anything they do. But they all know what they are doing, including this child. There is a difference. She knows how to get attention or how to vent her frustration, or hurt someone just because she can, or maybe even worse - how to do as she is told (which is acceptable in one environment, and unnacceptable in the other). Look at it this way - it’s not like she’s trying to be the sweetest ...
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Just try to remember how many times you worried about something that turned out OK in the end! I mean - if it turns out OK, you worried for nothing; on the other hand, if it’s turning into hell, and you’ve done your best, then agian there is nothing to worry about, as there was nothing you could do! Sometimes, a trouble comes to make our lives a little harder in some way which helps us become smarter, better, stronger; that’s something you have to count with. In a wonderful film ”Himalaya”, their lives depend on transport of salt over treacherous mountains with help of their Yaks. On ...
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If you were with your boyfriend, say in a car, kissing pationately, and your arms were all over each other, and if you really loved him and were into the whole kissing thing you’d get wet too. And you’d be ready for a quickie. Some women get wet really easy - within a minute or two of kissing, so there’s no need for lubrication. They say that with age this ability to get wet quickly diminishes (like when a woman reaches menopause). I find that the only difference is how confident and relaxed the woman is (and I’d venture a guess that a lot of man and women in the modern western world ...
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It is quite possible that some people around you are critical and that you don’t really notice that right away in which case it has a damaging effect on your self confidence. I recommend two books by Eric Berne: ”What do you say after you say hello” and ”Games people play”. In addition, anything you can do to get more familiar with all other subtleties of communication, especially non-verbal type, would be great. Once you do learn to read those subtle signs of disapproval, they won’t affect you any more. One other thing: once we get used to being criticized, we tend to percieve critici ...
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Thank you for the feedback! I am glad my text helps, and if I may add - you are right on with telling people that they don’t have to share with you what you like and they don’t (e.g. food). You don’t owe anyone any excuses for living on this planet. Enjoy your life and remember that it’s given to YOU, therefore you make your decisions; others should stick to theirs.   [End]
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I’ll go out on a limb here and suggest that there is a person in your life who is demanding, controlling and critical towards you in a ”passive-agressive” way. And you probably don’t see this person frequently, but after the latest time together, the anxiety came back... (most likely a parent - mother maybe?) If the above gaze at the crystal ball was correct, the best thing is to stay away from those critical types who are a trigger for your anxiety. Or if it’s not a person, it could very well be a situation or activity - like trying to find reasons for paranoia, the type you mention ab ...
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It’s an old thread, but I couldn’t resist: ”People think kids act like this just to piss you off and they don’t” Not true. If it was a 2 year old, then, yes, maybe the child is doing all the wrong stuff because she doesn’t know better. But at the age of 8 most if not all of that behaviour can be quite deliberate; and in this case I think it is deliberate. She knows very well what kind of effect her actions have. Children are way smarter then we think. Remember - the child spends considerable amount of time with her mother who is a suicidal person suffering from bipolar disorder, a ...
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To be brutally honest, if I was his wife, it would be - one strike and you’re out   [End]
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You may probably know this already, but in case you don’t - vitamin E helps prevent any damage you may have from high bp. Also vitamin C is good for that too. A simple breathing exercise to try: instead of breathing as you normaly do (feel it in your chest area), try to breath using your belly. Instead of your chest moving as you breathe, try to inhale with your tummy coming out and then in as you exhale. I hope I explained it well... I know it may sound crazy, but it is a proven technique to reduce the stress level - it can’t fail. Oh one other thing - make sure you get enough sleep ...
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I wouldn’t rate his webcam relationship as ”p 0 r nography”, more cyber sex, which I think is much more damaging to a relationship (with big question being if it was with a willing adult looking for a partner or if it was through some p 0 r n service). While on the subject of p 0 r nography, while it can be an addiction, and content of it is often horribly ugly, I don’t think it is always and necessarily damaging or sign of a deeper issue - depending on the content of course, as so many different things are considered ”p 0 r n”. It could be that here I am confusing erotic with p 0 r no ...
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It seems to me that he gets quite a bit of satisfaction from not being caught (or being naughty and not being caught), and you get some sort of satisfaction from outsmarting him. If this cat and mouse game is the underlying dynamics of your relationship, then you first need to change that. Be equal partners, don’t be his boss or persecutor (as evidenced by the request that he fess up with his parents), and he needs to learn to be responsible and mature.   [End]
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”Am I exaggerating when I say I believe my husband is slowly killing himself?” I don’t think that’s an exaggeration at all. He is certainly getting some sort of (perceived?) emotional reward for doing all that harm to his health. If you could see what that reward is, you could maybe help him realize that he doesn’t need to do all that. It’s like a kid who steals money from his father’s pocket only to find out that his dad would give him just as much if he only asked for it. Sometimes a simple statement or question that these types never heard can go a long way, even if it doesn’t ...
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Am I the only one having a good chuckle out of this? ”I am one of the nicest and moral guys you could ever find but the basic truths about young girls is that they like it when you treat them shitty...” Can you say ”Contradiction”? (to explain: you can’t be a ”nice and moral guy” and at the same time have a disrespectful and prejudiced opinion about the opposite sex! ”...basic truths about young girls” You do realize that you implied here that ALL young girls are the same? It may be better to try and make a distinction between ”all” and ”some” next time ”Its built into their ...
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I have observed many relationships and have never seen not even one that would prove me wrong on the point I made - that people don’t change. And God only knows how I wish I WAS wrong...   [End]
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In your place, I’d move on rather then waste my time trying to ”fix” someone else (which is a mission impossible). Once you have joint commitments and kids, she is most likely to give her issues a boost a notch or two, and then you’ll be left wondering what went wrong. We all are good people underneath it all, and so is she; but it’s what people DO that defines them. Our actions are the only thing that counts and they make us what we are. At the age of 20, her young mind is still quite capable of hiding shortcomings; later on it becomes harder and harder and issues just pile up until yo ...
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(I hit ”agree” when I wanted to click ”reply”...) Just wanted to say that I had experience with a naturally blond girl, who had a small clitoris, and who didn’t show a single sign of testosterone... if anything she was ”too feminine” - and very very good looking (not masculine at all). Not a single hair on her face or arms, she actually didn’t even have to pick her eyebrows to have them be really nice and feminine shape. She had both clitoral as well as vaginal cllmax and multiple cllmaxs. I think that excess of testosterone or even just a slight tip of the scale in favor of testo ...
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Many women can’t but it’s not because they were born that way. It’s the matter of years of influence from others... Interestingly enough, it is among primitive people, in societies where there are no sexual taboos or strong pressure to conform to some artificial standards that both women and men enjoy sex the most (Malinowski’s studies come to mind, as well as some anecdotal evidence). I have my own theories, and they boil down to the way the person grew up. I think that most people are subconsciously petrified of what others will think of them, and that fear is omnipresent - in e ...
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Here’s something you need to get more familiar with - it’s called ”Psychological projection” (a.k.a ”projection bias”): ”A defense mechanism in which the individual attributes to other people impulses and traits that he himself has but cannot accept. It is especially likely to occur when the person lacks insight into his own impulses and traits.”   [End]
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Hats off to you! I recognize my own experiences in your story; good thing is I am a bit older so I can tell you how it went for me... I also left my home when I was 19, mostly due to abuse there (I wasn’t explicitly told to leave, it was just implied strongly and my stay was made impossible). It wasn’t enough that I was pennyless, I also moved to a completely other town; I had a relative there who was willing to help, but he died a few days before I arrived... I also had a girlfriend at the time so we supported each other emotionally. We moved in together, and immediately started ...
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Re-read your own posts, and you’ll find all the answers right there. ”..Looking back, I was very self-righteous, very critical and very demanding. Do you see yourself as being any of those things?” Here you go criticizing her... the last thing someone in her situation needs. She needs support right now, not criticism, when there is no basis for what you said there (that she might be self-righteous, critical and demanding) ”All that YOU can change is yourself” Here you implicate that something is wrong with her (hence the need to change herself), while putting her whole family out ...
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Most people are not really aware of anything - dentists are the same. They may have been told various things, but what they believe and are aware of is quite questionable. They are happy to do as they are told and enjoy their luxuries that doing as they are told brings them.   [End]
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As much as you’re trying to help, your text sounds like she’s the one who is making the troble - by suggesting that she needs to change and that she needs to appease people who obviously hate her. I must say I strongly dissagree with that viewpoint.   [End]
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(I hit ”agree” instead of ”respond”, sorry for that) I had very similar experiences. That makes you and me ”brothers in arms”. :-) (Interestingly enough, you will find that many smart and successfull people’s biographies read in a similar way.) First of all - you are your parent’s responsibility. From the moment you are born until you are mature enough to take care of yourself, their first responsibility is to love you, support you, and make sure you grow into a healthy self-sufficient individual. From what you write, it’s safe to say that your mom, dad, and stepfather all failed ...
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Thanks for the Steiner info As for Cayce’s take on sexuality, it is quite interesting and not that simple: first, in almost everything, he said that we were all on different levels of development - so some are maybe just learning to not be afraid of sexual pleasure, while some others have brought to this experience so much that they have taken sexual pleasure too far (and in some cases that was the cause of homosexual behaviour - like someone who needs sex so much but has tried it all, that ”normal” won’t do any more). And then there were those (very few) who evolved so much that they a ...
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Montessori, I agree, certainly has way more to offer then current public education; although I prefer her original ideas to current implementation. I didn’t know that there was a connection with Steiner though... As for Cayce, he himself said that predictions can’t be 100% exact, if at all, as future depends entirely on free will - and since free will is the very essence of our existence, it is certain that future is uncertain. :-) So his predictions (I studied his work quite a lot), where things were already set up and were almost impossible to change (like Hitler’s tactical mistake ...
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”they seem to have a positive opinion of Osho, who ran a criminal emmpire...” As for Osho, I agree, and my opinion of him is the same as yours. However that site may have tendency to over-rate rather then to under-rate. I actually don’t hold Rudolf Steiner in high regard either. I read his books, and they don’t make much sense. When one needs to use unnecesseraly complicated language, he is clearly not a guru to me. Every expert is recognized by ease with which he communicates about the subject which is his forte. I was also surprised to read Edgar Cayce reading (someone who is way ...
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And a few more minutes of web surfing reveals that he is a: ” Big operation, benefit of doubt.” from here: http://www.globalserve.net/~sarlo/RatingsM.htm#mantak which is an interesting site, rating ”gurus”. Mantak Chia gets a rating of ”suspect, but on balance positive” far from a good rating. He also has thousands of trained certified teachers... so he really is a big operation. Seems more of a businessman then a guru to me.   [End]
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In only a few minutes of web search I found out that Mantak Chia is a christian, who lives in New York, runs a wellness spa in Thailand, and has been criticized for plagiarizing some other author. Oh, and he seems to claim that one can achieve physical immortality. Something I’ll only believe when I see it; and I haven’t even seen a claim that someone has achieved that. I am sorry to sound like a typical sceptic, but this does sound very much like a ”new age newcomer-businessman”. I’d love to be proven wrong though!   [End]
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I only believe in results   [End]
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I would put job stress right up there with physical/health problems. I’ve been through some job stress, not even as bad as some other people I know, and during those times the last thing on my mind was sex.   [End]
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Unless the cause is physical, this may be a deeper problem... I always thought that sex was a perfect picture of the real quality of a relationship. I wouldn’t cheat. I am like that - having nice sleep, and never having to wonder if I’ve made a mistake is one thing I would never sacrifice for anything. But I would have a serious conversation with him, while taking a long and hard look at myself - like were there signs of what was coming, did I listen to those, am I welcoming his comments or interupting them, am I trustworthy enough that he would open up if there was a problem, etc. ...
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In this respect you can call me ”close minded”... but that’s because I think that here we have something other then an ”cllmax without ejaculation” only it’s given a marketable name to sell books. I am kinda tired of everything that can sell (and sex sells) given a cool name and defined as something that doesn’t exist. Look at your average new-age book, and there is about 90% chance that the author has no clue what he’s talking about. I am not kidding! Heck, I have hardly ever met anyone who is firmly into Feng Shui who even knows how to pronounce it. To give you an example: tantra i ...
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Opps, I accidentally clicked ”agree” instead of ”reply”... and I don’t agree :-) Yes, it is a nerve sensation coming to the peak, which then creates electrical impulses, coming out of the bottom of the spine, which then influences muscles down there, which in turn squeeze the semen out of their home... which explains why there is no cllmax without ejaculation. OTOH, I can easily agree that there is some other sexual sensation which happens without ejaculation, and that’s probably what those who believe in this thing refer to. I’ve postponed my own cllmax numerous times, but tha ...
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”he is starting to tell me that if I would just love her more, then her problems would improve.” This shows that he doesn’t understand how serious the situation is. He’s probably a bit of an escapist (workaholic or something...) if he can think it’s that simple. One thing I know for sure is this: a child having two different influences on her growing up is certainly going to end up a very disturbed person. There is nothing worse for a child’s development then having one day an approval for something you do, and the next day being punished for the same thing. That’s why I said that sh ...
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(Soulful survivor gave here one of the best descriptions of a narcissist I ever read) It seems that you have a very good insight into your own challenges, and that means that you’re on your way to solving them. For me the turning point of my life was therapy; it was based mostly on transactional analysis, but also included many other elements. My therapist was also quite liberal in the way t.a. was applied in therapy, and it was way better then what you may read in books (Eric Berne). I actually don’t suggest reading about t.a. - it’s better to enjoy the ride in therapy, then to try ...
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Obviously my comment, just like the whole discussion, is about male cllmax... unless you were joking in which case, joke’s on me :-)   [End]
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That’d be like saying you can watch a movie with your eyes closed... Isn’t the very definition of cllmax - peak of sexual arousal including ejaculation? And if there is no ejaculation - how can we even call it an ”cllmax”? ”Multi cllmaxic man” sounds like a good way to make money selling tons of books. Heck, I may even include it in my sexual fantasies, but i don’t expect to become multi-cllmaxic any time soon. (although I wouldn’t object) ;-)   [End]
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I’ve read quite a bit on the subject, and me thinks that it’s the biggest load of garbage ever created in sexual literature. The only way an cllmax is w/o ejaculation is when either there is no cllmax, or when the semen is directed back up the urethra and into the bladder - not a healthy condition. And I remember reading somewhere that that’s what those texts from far east refer to - sort of an cllmax without ejaculation, but in reality the ejaculation is happening only in the wrong place. Saying that a man looses his energy or whatever through semen, is also garbage, as there is no ...
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It seems that mothers intake of vitamin C during pregnancy has a big time effect on child’s teeth. Maybe by nature you have a bigger need for vitamin C and so does your child? Try giving him at least 500mg of vitamin C per day, if not even more. Split that amount into smaller doses, given always with after a meal, and better to give it as calcium-ascorbate then ascorbic acid. Also, bad teeth are sometimes caused by slow thyroid, which can be caused by all kinds of things - like lack of iodine in food. Use only salt which has iodine and try some iodine rich foods (salmon for instance).
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Try to take vitamin C, regardless of anything else you may do. Vitamin C is one of those rare things which can penetrate those microscopic blood vessels in your gums and can help repair the damage to gums and bone. Also, I’d try rinsing my mouth with 3% hydrogen peroxide - easily obtained in any pharmacy. It will kill whatever you have in your gums and will hopefully help heal it (just don’t swallow it!). I had to do that after a surgery once, and after every meal I’d brush my teeth, then rinse with hydrogen. The healing was perfect and quick. You can even do a google.com search on h ...
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I observed that this happens mostly because husband (in your case) has managed to poison the relationship somehow. These things that poison the relationship are under the radar, and therefore go unnoticed. Sort of like cyanide which someone puts in food in tiny amounts over time - it will kill, but no one will know. Same here. Or sometimes, WE are the ones who were trained and brought up with these poisonous patterns of behaviour. But most often it is both parties. If you could learn to observe those little putdowns that are directed at you, or that you direct at him, or to hear thos ...
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With all the examples you gave, I think you love that girl more then I would, and I like to think of myself as someone who adores kids! :-) If she knows that she always has an option of going to her mom where she can do as she pleases, then she’ll never change her ways with you. Kids are smart that way. Only if you were the only family where she lived, and the only option she had, would she learn that she needed to change.   [End]
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Your text starts with ”I don’t love this child...”. You and I may have totally different idea about what ”love” towards kids is. For me, it is primarily acceptance and understanding and awareness that the child needs support and has a right to live his life happily; and you can dislike a child, and even feel contempt for her behaviour, but you have to understand that children behave as they are influenced to. They don’t have a functional ego - they can only model their own behaviour and ego based on influences from their environment (parent of the same sex primarily). I think you can un ...
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so in a way he’s making you pay for their mistakes... Show him examples of women who haven’t cheated; or ask him if he really believes that all the women who lived on this planet were cheaters??? Then he will realize that his belief is far from truth. He may change the belief, or he may not, but in any case, while being gentle about the whole thing, do tell him that it is not fair that you pay for mistakes of some other girls he met. Or ask him how would he feel if he was attacked for something he didn’t do just because you were hurt by someone else? Or would he like to be confused wit ...
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(I am writing this under the assumption that you really didn’t cheat on him in any way, and haven’t even wanted to do that). It is obvious that he’s afraid you may have sex with someone who’s penis is bigger then his. Often people who are good in bed are overly possesive and therefore insecure as they are afraid of loosing the pleasure and partner... It’s the question of ”having” vs. ”being”. Those three weeks of being mad at each other may well have been subcounsciously started by him as an attempt to rather break the relationship then risk loosing you to someone else. Does he HAVE yo ...
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Retrogrades are really not a big deal in a chart. I have a few too, and haven’t noticed anything. Like a friend of mine said - ”maybe retrogrades mean that you’d put on your shirt backwards more often?” :-) One theory is that things influenced by those retrograde planets come much later in life then they ”should”... just a theory. E.g. pluto retrograde means you die really really late :-) I’d look for planets in your sixth house for clues, as well as your south node, and also planets in your 12 house. I should mention here that I have a rather unorthodox way of looking at a chart, an ...
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in truth. Thank you, I wish and pray for the same for you!   [End]
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Novacaine is your regular anesthetic, the one you probably had been given many times before. The IV sedation on the other hand influences your brain and your short term memory. Hence, I’d rather avoid IV sedation, even though it seems to be rather popular among some dentists. BTW, I did amalgam replacement with only novacaine. In one sitting we did four teeth on one side... and it all took some three hours or so, during which time I was just chilling under all that hardware (oxygen mask, overall cover, rubber dam, etc).   [End]
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You need to travel a little and see that from outside the US, world looks totaly different. Don’t give into paranoia. No one is out there to get you, regardless of what lies war mongering media is feeding us all. Example: remember that war in Iraq started because they had ”nucular” (to quote dubya) weapons there? Then it came out that it was all a lie. But our boys are still there getting killed daily. Why if there are no weapons of mass distruction? And wouldn’t you be pissed if someone invaded your country for an imaginary reason, arrested your president tried him and so on, and ...
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You’re comparing apples and oranges. Man should stay fit as much as women! But hair loss, or wrinkles etc, are quite outside our or anyone else’s control. And no man will be disapointed when his wife gets a few wrinkles, or grey hair, or even a bit of a hair loss in the worst case. We look at legs, hips, waist, we need to see those healthy curves, and the body sway not stomp...   [End]
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Here’s an answer from a man: Males are more turned on by what they SEE then women who are turned on by other things as well. So your gaining weight certainly has some effect. For me, it would be a major turn-off. I am just being honest, I hope you understand. I don’t even pretend to say that I am right in my materialistic outlook on woman’s beauty. And I have a few female friends, in their 50s and even 60s who look like they are in their 40s with slim figures and who are still super sexy, to prove my point. That is probably one reason. Another one is probably his shift. But that’s ...
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I think that that’s because we choose our lovers based on our own abberations and their ability to bring them out. Then we have someone to be angry at for all the wrongdoing of our parents. And for as long as there is that emotional baggage, there will be unresolved issues in relationsips. People don’t get angry at those who deserve the emotion; they get angry at whoever is closest. People are also not very good at connecting causes and effects which enable the above to happen. In friendships we are not as close as in our relationships so we don’t get the adequate emotional charge to ...
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This is SOOOOO ridiculous! Do you guys really REALLY believe that they would go out of their way to kill some second hand spy out of sheer spite using such a crazy ”weapon” like a radioactive substance??? I mean, I have read all kinds of stupid things on the net, but this one just boggles the mind. Russia, a nation which developed poisons which cannot be discovered, just like USA, UK and other nations did, is using something so dangerous and obvious why - just to spite everyone and attract as much attention as possible? In 1960’s Russians did kill someone in London - a spy, and it ...
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Sorry for taking this long to respond I’ve asked myself those very same questions over and over again... Then you realize that if we made all the ”right” choices, we’d never have any problems to start with. But how can we know what the best choice is, when we are surrounded with troubles - everywhere one turns there is high probability that we will make an uninformed and therefore bad decision which will cost us dearly - perhaps even our life. Think of all the health problems caused by modern medicine, or all the relationship problems caused by our lack of understanding of the human nat ...
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If you get familiar with life and readings of Edgar Cayce, you will find the answer. I am familiar quite a bit with his work so I can tell you what I remember... First - Edgar Cayce was a psychic, who mostly helped people with their health issues, but also did readings on other subjects. Since he was a real believer and Sunday school teacher who read the Bible once every year of his life, he also did many inspired readings on topics such as Jesus, Bible and so on. Cayce did about 15,000 readings in his life. About 10,000 of those were health readings for individuals. They were all r ...
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Thanks for sharing that! I actually read the Bible from time to time, and can even see exactly where Jesus was mis-quoted in some way; or rather, where the essence is preserved, but has to be read carefully in order not to be missed. But, I really don’t remember any place in the Bible where Jesus says anything significant or even remotely connected to something like - ”Let’s have priests, and then Cardinals, and the Pope and then tithing...” What I do remember, and it really stands out and is most inspirative, are things like ”if you people had even a grain of real faith in you, you ...
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You’re about three years younger then Linda Evangelista... and I think that most men would kill to date her. :-) But even more importantly, by about that age, men finally start getting it right, and realize that there is more to a woman then her bra size. Not to mention that those who were married and divorced usually learned at least some basic stuff from their wife #1 so that you don’t have to worry about his laundry or that he won’t know how to do dishes. :-) A friendly suggestion - while waiting to see how things will pan out, see what it is you can do for yourself. For instanc ...
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”His mission was to rescue man from their shortcomings and offer them a way to get into the Kingdom of Heaven...   [End]
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I think that in faith as in everything else - we are all on our own, except for help recieved through prayer. Keeing things simple is probably the best way. Awareness of evil always hiding where you’d last look for it also helps... (A million dollar question would be - where would the devil hide in order not to be discovered? what’s the last place we’d look at to find him? Anyone dare answer? ;-) )   [End]
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I just looked at all responses, and not a single one is an honest response about that person’s experience with cllmax.   [End]
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Wow... you sound really pissed at me. Notice that the subject is not necesseraly intended for you.   [End]
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That’s not the point of this discussion, and is a bit too complicated.   [End]
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Alikat, do I sense some animosity from you? Read my initial post carefully... Now on to more interesting stuff - The woman who had multiple cllmaxs, which always happened during intercourse in a certain position, could also reach a clitoral cllmax; however, in that case it would be only one, and according to her in terms of pleasure - it didn’t really compare to the vaginal cllmax. Time of month, hormones or whatever made absolutely no difference. Your response sounds like taken from a book; I imagined this more as a ”from personal experience” type of thing, as I have a feeling th ...
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I know a few, and consider myself to be one of them, but 99% of women I know are not interested in that (one friend openly told me that her biggest turn on is - money!). Just like man go crazy after some woman for all the wrong reasons, women seem to do the same... and then loose all hope. It’s like that story about a guy who was told by God that he only needed to find a stone of happiness, and he’d be happy for the rest of his life. So the guy spent his life bent over and looking everywhere to find that stone of happiness. Picked up every single one of them he found, yet none of those ...
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It would wonderful if it was like that really. But, here’s why I know it’s not like that: I’ve had a girlfriend who always had multiple orgasms with me, almost every time. We were 100% open to each other and trusting, and I am trully gentle and caring with women... Then, later I had another girlfriend who was never open, but pretended or tried to be; I could feel the difference - first one didn’t care what I thought of her looks, as she believed me when I said she looked great. The other one also looked great but she didn’t believe it. So, I was identical towards both of them, but they wer ...
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