Re: no! by #72512 ..... Relationship Support Forum
Date: 6/6/2007 9:46:41 AM ( 17 y ago)
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Nope. I dissagree completely with this point of view. It's very optimistic and have a very happy ending and I would love for them to be true but I have never found them to work in my life.
These are points of view coming from women that use curezone. I mean no offense by saying this AT ALL.. But these women who use these forums would be more likely to be into self improvement, new age thinking, self love, upliftment of the consciousness of the world etc...
Thats going to be a very small percentage of actual real people out there in the world. You have to understand what demographic you are getting from here. This does not mean that a majority of women do have these tendancies within themselves and would love to explore them more deeply with you after getting into a relationship with you, which is what happened to me.
She says that people can and do have sex with anybody or anything but you have to realize that jacob has not been the sexual interest of one person in 15 years. He has to change what he is doing if he wants to succeed. I didnt get any action for 4 years at one point and it was because I was doing exactly what jacob was doing and what you ladies are telling him to do. Pretty soon I just realized that ladies do not want you to be superficially nice to them all of the time (which is what some guys were brought up to think) but they actually want you to be yourself and know what you want and express that and be confident. Im not asking him to change who he is, but just start saying what he really actually feels and stop being a pushover. There is nothing bad or immoral about that. In fact, this is something that all people should learn. When you know what you deserve and are not afraid to ask for it then you have proper self respect and will start getting what you know you deserve
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