Date:   5/15/2007 9:59:53 AM ( 17 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=871221

He KNOWS that you WANT TO help him, he counts on that in order to be able to manipulate you. He found your weak point. Unless a person is self-sufficient and does not actually need or want help, they will make a point of finding out what YOUR goals are so they can "play" on them (use your goals) and get whatever they can out of you. They will pretend that they are weak in order to let you be a hero (because they know that you want to be their "savior"/mommy). He is stringing you along. It may sound politically incorrect, but no man worth his salt (has an ounce of self-respect) wants his girlfriend to be his MOMMY (and you don't want this either). He has found out how to "push your buttons".

You have a deep sense of love (you know love as a sentiment, he only thinks of love as an emotion). YOU are basing your relationship on YOUR sense of love (and think he has the ability to return the SENTIMENT, but he never will have that ability). Parenting is only for parents and does not belong in romantic relationships.

You have a very deep and special sense of love, always guard your heart and keep what is special...SPECIAL (don't cast your pearls before...you know).


 

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