Date:   5/12/2007 11:17:03 AM ( 17 y ago)
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Hi Tasha..:)

It is Nadia. We had a wee discussion on another forum (but here we are to share our stories..)... Look down (previous posts) and u find a post called 'Love is like a plant'.. So it was me..:)... Tasha, dear girl, tell me if ur bf makes u so unhappy and behaves that way what is the point to be after him?.... Are u going to merry him? If not ready for it and not planning in the near future then - there is a lot of fish in the sea.. All men are getting ready for serious rels quite late (though the are a few quite 'unique' examples who are ready for it even by the age of 20). Urs is 21, but even my former one is 27 and STILL after as many women as possible.. But urs is JUST 21! So what can u expect?.... I dont think that somebody here can help u in ur case.. u cant jump till the moon... No point to do something extraodinary and may be go across ur values JUST to 'turn his head' to ur side a wee bit more often than he does now.. WHY? What for??.. I did a lot for my man. Everything to make him happy.. YES, he was very comfortable with me but DID IT MAKE ME HAPPIER of being with him?.. Did he love me more for all that?.. NO...

Try to learn HOW to LOVE urself and be good to urself first of all.. Be in peace with urself and the others... Dont worry - u will be fine. Every rels, every time when we are in love we think it is the real love and we simply die if the guy of our dreams leaves us... I remember I liked a guy so much, I was IN LOVE with him.. sometimes I 'couldnt breathe' coz seeing him was too overvelming to me.. and now?.. He!.. Iam asking myself. What did u find in him, Nadia?.. Just handsome block and thats it!..:)..

Let him go... Dump him.. AND turn all ur atention to urself.. Go to gym, take care of urself (ur look).. Do it for URSELF and NOT for anyone else... Believe me quite soon u will be surrounded with attention of men!!..:)).. Dont destroy urself! Listen to me, my dear! Ok?..:)

And lets be back to that forum where we meet each other first and TAKE CARE OF OURSELF at last!..:).... Yep!..:D:D

Blessings,
Nadia

..:)
 

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