Re: Crazy in Love- Help!!! by been there done that ..... Relationship Support Forum
Date: 5/12/2007 2:32:43 AM ( 17 y ago)
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It seems to me a very masterful plan of his to give you passwords and tell you certain info so you could go to myspace and be made a fool of with a 'SURPRISE, YOU'RE A FOOL'. It was a SETUP (a SCENARIO) so that you would end up feeling guilty and ashamed that you ever questioned his fidelity.
Whenever a person is covert and has secrets to hide ("skeletons in their closet"), they are a:
1) constant source of SURPRISES
2) schemer that constructs SCENARIOS
3) source of SHAME and/or GUILT and humiliation (they'll make you feel like fool).
4) make a habit out of saying "What do you mean?" instead of minding only THEIR business so that they can discover how to manipulate you.
5) smile excessively in order to cover-up their true decietfulness and convince you that they are a TRUE friend.
6) be vague, ambiguous and short in their explanations in order to avoid complete explanations of their actions and attitudes.
7) change the subject in order to avoid the REAL ISSUE that needs discussion
8) constantly be "politically correct" in order to hide their true nature.
and use any other trick they found necessary and useful in knowing you and that they have been able to discover works with you by saying "What do you mean?" (meaning "how do you think?") and finding out 'what makes you tick'.
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