Date:   1/30/2007 9:00:46 PM ( 17 y ago)
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Grz,

LOL I don't worry about other's feelings...at the risk of my own. Yet before I started out on this journey I have taken on.. in finding myself, finding what is true for ME, and making me more healthy (thanks to Curezone and y'all and other things I have learned), I was one for living other people's beliefs and alot of that was because I didn't know they were NOT MY own. I didn't even realize it...kinda like an automatic pilot on life. So, when I stated worrying about others feelings, I was saying most people do.

I have one big philosophy in my life: If you don't pay for my world (which I am the sole provider in this home...lol..as I tell my son, a female dominated home ;-)!...I do enjoy teasing him, sometimes) then you may say what you want but odds are, I will not be doing it...unless I Truly believe what you have to say.

As for children, when my son was coming up (he is 18 1/2) I did listen to others, not because I was afraid of hurting their feelings but because I did not know... more precisely, at that time, I did not question it. Their thoughts (beliefs) were intended with love and I didn't realize the things I do now, therefore, my son was fed the way most children were. There were consequences yet it was, what it was.

I am doing for me now. He sees some of it and at the moment is not interested. Although on thought levels, things I have learned, he does question sometimes, with interest and I answer when he asks. I think he may (or may not) ask about the things I do and then I will answer those questions also.

Love, Light and Peace,
Beth
 

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