Date:   1/23/2007 4:13:33 AM ( 17 y ago)
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Not just a weirdo, but sounds like a narcissist, to me. EVERYTHING revolves around what HE is wanting.

You would have to surrender everything that is important to you and move to Oakland (my brother lives in Alameda, so I know about Oakland) into a socio-economic situation that is not only dangerous, but thoroughly depressing, as well.

I would suggest that you give this some very, very serious thought: what are YOUR motives for entering into a relationship with this person? Do you feel thoroughly safe and comfortable? Is this a realtionship based upon absolute honesty and partnership? What will HE be surrendering for the sake of the relationship?

I married a man that insisted upon all of the above, AND he claimed to be a wonderful Christian who would quote the Bible, etc. It wasn't until I was 6000 miles away from home, friends, support, and safety (we got stationed in Hawaii) that I began to see precisely what I was dealing with.

I would strongly urge you to use caution and rethink this whole scenario. THEN, check out the Narcissist/Sociopath Forum on curezone.

Best of luck to you.
 

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