Date:   1/12/2007 11:27:47 AM ( 17 y ago)
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URL:   https://www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=809341

Thanks for this:

"The most important aspect that I learned was that I was not responsible for propelling anyone towards any healing, helpful, progressive path - the only person that I could be responsible for was myself. And, as I learned more about my perpetrator's true past, I was finally able to see the cycle and made the choice to step out of it. He had fabricated the most pitiful childhood stories about his mother, and nearly everything that came out of his mouth was utterly invented. The narcissist cannot be helped by the victim, a "friend," or even a savvy therapist unless he/she is ready to shed the cloak of deception, demonstrate 100% courage, and do the work that will help to free them from their own cycle of abuse/control - this is more than unlikely, for to attempt any of the above, it requires that the narcissist must admit to being flawed and to deliberately committing sins against other living beings."

I am going to court Tuesday, and while I was originally concerned that he rehabilitate himself (he had me feeling sorry for him!), i've come to realize that I must protect myself and do what i have to do to assure that he will stay away from me. if i drop this and he ls let go free, there will be no 'first offense' on file, and he could assault me again while my back is turned. I am NOT responsible for his life, his rehabilitation, his *anything*, and after i face him in court on Tuesday (see thread below), i hope to never see his pathetic face again.





 

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